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I been married twice. The first time was a BIG mistake.....a horrible experiance. I had 2 children with the evil b***h. The second time was wonderful. Tara Sue.
Im single now-Tara died. But I sometimes wish I was married again. It's nice.
OK....so-are you married?

I was married back 3 years ago...

I'm getting married again, someday. I love the girl I'm with.

I gave her a promise ring and I told her someday I want to marry her, now she holds me to that!

I be single.

Nope. Don't think I ever will get maried either. I came within days of doing so back in 2006, but I had a huge bust up with my ex. We were still together, but the whole marriage thing went west and out the window. It was a lucky escape when I think about it now. We were too young though.

I don't know what the hell's going on at the moment, as women seem to either hate me or they want to mother me. Plus, I'm a fussy idiot as I can see a hundred supposedly "gorgeous" girls yet they'll do nothing for me. I seem to seek out particular people that I deem as being "special", then they mercilessly shoot me down.

I'm weird.

when you are ready for the third time, look me up! we can start a cult and i can be married to you and doggett; a perverse version of traditional mormons...

Married and hope to be for the rest of my life.  HOWEVER...and thats a big "however"...there is absolutely no friggin' way I'd EVER do it again nor even have any bit of anything resembling a relationship if my wife and I didn't make it.  I'd just want a few friends with benefits that I could walk away from once having our way with each other.  Yep, thats cold and this will really bake your noodles...I've told my wife this.  I simply don't like the drama BS relationships can cause.  Why can't people just shut up and f*ck.

When you get married you inherit a lot of baggage emotionally and literally.   Their problems become your problems hence you end up spending a lot of time miserable.  All of this "lets work through it together" I find is mostly movie and TV bullsh!t.  If one person isn't happy with something, you inherit the BS.  Still, the moments when your relationship is BS free prove to usually make up for it.

In other words, being married is a ton of work and requires an overload of tolerance for another person. If you can't handle that, I'd recommend not doing it ever.  

Words of wisdom. :thumbup:

Thanks man and I know personally you've been around the bend on this topic.  

Let me say as a guy a lot of my misery has come from women.  I am not a misogynist but there are times I question if the other half in my past/current relationships were legally insane at times. personally I dislike relationship drama and for me 99% of the time it came from the other half.  My needs are simple, treat me with respect, do what you can to be nice to me and give me sex.  With women it seems I've argued a lot...mostly about nothing. instead of getting it on I have to argue with the other half over whether or not they "look good".  I just have no tolerance for that sh!t anymore and I think my wife is getting that hint.

Which brings me to this, why does it seem the nice guys get stomped on in relationships all the time while d!ckheads are spared the drama?  There are so many women I know that have total losers for mates yet they do everything for them.  Meanwhile the nice guys seem to have the b!tches.

Been married to my best friend and childhood sweetheart for almost 27 years now.
I love her insanely; she's high maintenance but worth it!
However, I'm not cut out to live alone, and I don't believe in sex outside of marriage.
So if she croaks, I'm marrying Anne Hathaway.

 :bouncegiggle:

Its always good to have a back up plan !  :cheers:

I feel your pain Circus.  I've been married twice but each time it ended badly and I was left scratching my head wondering what went wrong.  With each new relationship I'm hopeful and believe that I've learned my lessons from the previous one and I believe that I pick a different guy each time.  But to no avail.  It starts out well and then they suddenly realise they are emotionally unavailable and they run a mile.

My current beau, Sean is a case in point.  I haven't seen him for about 3 weeks, although we chat nearly every day.  He started shutting down over the last few months and one night we got drunk and I told him a few home truths about how I saw things and what I thought his problems were.  I only spoke the truth, but it must have been too much for him because it brought up a lot of issues from his past he hadn't dealt with and he freaked out.

So now he's trying to "get his head straight" and then I'm assuming we'll have The Talk and I'll find out how he feels and what he thinks.

I just don't know how things could go from being so wonderful and so right to such a stinking cesspit of angst and heartbreak in 5 months.  :buggedout:

But if he breaks it off with me, I'm done with men.  I will never date again because I just couldn't go through the hearbreak again.  I'm way too old for that sh.i.te

No, don't plan on getting married but I have been with the same girlfriend for over three years now.

The one, the single, the unmarried...

Single and probably will remain.  Not against the idea, but have trouble dealing with people over extended periods of time and people have problems dealing with me over extended periods of time.  I tend to make terrible choices that aggravate people at inappropriate moments.  I don't know.  I think having moved and other issues makes stability uncomfortable in a way.  I tend to like some change and have a bit of wanderlust at times. 

Not married, though may as well be, but other than the 'cool party' we don't feel like there's a need to make the plunge, even though it was pretty much discussed three months into our relationship.

hi
Yes i am married but it has been quite a rollercoaster.During my wife's illness she had several very public affairs and she was a huge b***h.However if you love someone then you step back and try to remain calm and resolve your problems.
My wife is not only my partner for life but she is my heartbeat and the blood that flows through my veins,she is and always shall be the only woman in my life that i choose to spend my life with.

been with the same wonderful woman for over three years now. marriage is down the the road, eventually. no need to rush things. she tolerates me watching mst3k and bad '70s exploitation films,so who could ask for more.

Married for 22 years now.  I'm happy, in my own little way   :teddyr: 

Not married at all: I can't even live with myself at times so how can I expect others to live with me?  :question:

I've been married since August.   :teddyr:

I've been married almost 17 years.  Got married in Las Vegas.  Live in Massachusetts.  So, the way I figure it, I'm legally single everywhere else.

Never married.  If I were, I'd have to learn to be a responsible adult.  Who wants that?

I've been married for over 5 years now and I love it!  It's not really all that hard for me either.  I think I can count on one hand the number of times my husband has been mad at me.. maybe he's just super nice or really good at hiding his anger, but I've seen him mad at others countless times.  Although, I did have 2 roomates before living with him that were almost impossible to deal with but I never had fights with them, so I guess I kind of had practice, or maybe marriage is just easier in comparison to living with teenage girls.

This November 27,  Miss Dawn and I will celebrate our 30th Anniversary. She was the first person I ever dated that let me be me.    She has seen me through cancer, raised two of the greatest kids you could ever meet, and  she has put up with all of my odd hobbies and I know she has to wonder about these packages I send to places liked South Africa, the UK, and Michigan.

Marriage is great when you find the right person.

 :thumbup: Trek!   :cheers:

I am married.  Since 1984.

I got married in 2000. My wife came along to keep me company.  :tongueout:

Not. But, I figure there's still hope for me yet, because one of my favorite wedding stories is about this couple in Arizona, both 85, both single all their life, who got married and for the first time, to each other. Thus, I feel there's about 25 more years, before I throw in the towel on getting married.

Not married yet, but i want everyone to know that there's an open-invitation to all board members. Think of it as a wedding/badmovies.org convention. love you all...

Wait, did you just propose to all of us? 

I'm single... I'll consider your proposal. 

If we do get married can we have a Zardoz-themed wedding?  That's always been the deal-breaker in the past. 

I accept Grace's proposal!

Oh, please let me be Best Man to your and SG's wedding !


A Zardoz wedding just seems to beautiful to my eyes...

 :cheers: :teddyr:

My place or yours?

 :drink:

actually it's Doggett and I that are getting married....

Dammit, just tear out my heart!

I wanted it to be me, then Paquita... :bluesad:

Will you perform the cceremony? I want RC to be my best man/ maid of honor... i don't really know any girls, so guess i'll have a best man lol

The reception would be legendary . . .

Hell yeah, I could.....ahem, "perform".  :twirl:

I hope you mean with an electric guitar...

Hey, Grace has a guitar too, maybe the two of you could rock out !
Oh, that would be cool !

Most importantly, whose making the cake?

I hope someone will be bursting out of said cake. Wearing a sash, like Miss Badmovies or something....  :tongueout:

Or you could have a movie themed cake... :wink:

(http://destroyingmyart.typepad.com/destroying_my_art/images/cake_big.jpg)

(http://technabob.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/ghostbusters-cake-by-charm-city-cakes.jpg)

(http://technabob.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mario_kart_wedding_cake.jpg)

VenomX would love this !  :cheers:

If you guys throw Doggett a bachelor party; i will make him a naked Elvira cake...

 :tongueout:

He'd probably run off and try and marry the cake then!  :teddyr:

If there is a hole in the middle of that cake; i am so not eating that...

Nah, William Weird would be all over it....

Still, I can nibble on you.

So you'd use this (http://ephemerist.files.wordpress.com/2007/10/wedding-cake-topper.jpg) wedding cake?

(I'm so not embedding that picture...  :wink: :tongueout: )

(http://www.thedigeratilife.com/images/wedding-cake-topper-31.jpg)


...help...

So, how many invitations do we need to send?

no black tie needed, we just ask don't use the cake for nefarious/personal reasons!

 :bouncegiggle: