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Title: Burgo's Confessional
Post by: The Burgomaster on September 16, 2011, 04:15:28 PM
Please enter and confess!

Here's something I need to get off my chest.  When I was in my early 20s, one of my friends was dating a "loose" girl who had cheated on him several times.  He was her main (steady) boyfriend, but occasionally she would go out with another guy behind his back.  He refused to believe she was doing this.  Anyway, this girl had an abortion a couple years before she started going out with my buddy.  One night (after a bit of irresponsible drinking), I started telling this girl what I thought of her in front of my buddy and several other friends.  I was saying stuff like, "I'm sick of you using him and screwing around on him behind his back, you abortion whore!"  That was around 25 years ago, but I still think about it and feel bad about it.  I don't feel bad for the girl, but I feel bad for my buddy who really liked her and had to listen to me saying these terrible things in front of a bunch of other people.  And that's my confession for today.

 


Title: Re: Burgo's Confessional
Post by: retrorussell on September 16, 2011, 05:51:32 PM
It's sad when people just can't stand up for themselves (I've been guilty of this before numerous times), but sometimes you just have to let them learn their lesson on their own.  Some people never do, so maybe you did the right thing; I'm not sure.  But she sure does sound like a piece of s**t.


Title: Re: Burgo's Confessional
Post by: Jack on September 17, 2011, 07:07:47 AM
I think what you did was good Burgo.  There's nothing worse than really falling for a girl who's just a lying cheating piece of crap.  Those stupid emotions in our head can blind us to everything.   And you can't get through to somebody to make them realize what's going on with polite, friendly conversation - like you said, he refused to believe what was actually going on.  Hitting them over the head with reality is about the best and only thing a person can do - of course they feel bad about it, but they'd feel a hell of a lot worse if they spent even more time with her and got even more attached to her, because when they finally figured it out they'd be devastated.

So in my opinion you did the best thing possible.   :thumbup:


Title: Re: Burgo's Confessional
Post by: RCMerchant on September 17, 2011, 07:56:30 AM
Burgo-I dump my guts every day. Feels good,dont it? I found out that hiding,or keeping things in is worse than the scorn of a***oles I dont care about anyway. Yer my hero! Good job!  :cheers:


Title: Re: Burgo's Confessional
Post by: Raffine on September 17, 2011, 08:01:17 AM
Good for you, Burgo!







Is it wrong for me to admit I laughed when I read the phrase "you abortion whore!"..? 


Title: Re: Burgo's Confessional
Post by: Ed, Ego and Superego on September 17, 2011, 02:19:07 PM
Y'know Burgo..one of the functions of being 20-ish to to make an a$$ of yourself.  I still cringe when I think of what i did.
-Ed


Title: Re: Burgo's Confessional
Post by: RCMerchant on September 18, 2011, 09:43:38 AM
Back in 1985,I lived in a trailer near Fish lake in marcellus (Michigan). My neighbor-also in atrailer,was a truck driver.Across the street was a bar-Melvilles. A biker bar. My neighbor-the trucker,was always bragging about the women he would pick up on the road and f**k. His wife was quite pretty,and a good freind of mine I had known for years. When he was on the road,me and her got drunk...and I f**ked her. I felt kinda bad about it later...I dont like to f**k my freind's wife. But I did. More than once. All the time.
I felt like a rat.  :bluesad:


Title: Re: Burgo's Confessional
Post by: The Burgomaster on September 18, 2011, 10:40:03 AM
Y'know Burgo..one of the functions of being 20-ish to to make an a$$ of yourself.  I still cringe when I think of what i did.
-Ed

I know.  I did more than my share of stupid things.  And when I was in my late teens and early 20s I had a girlfriend for 3 1/2 years who was very selfish and demanding, but I stayed with her for a long time for some reason.   :bluesad:



Title: Re: Burgo's Confessional
Post by: Ed, Ego and Superego on September 18, 2011, 01:12:42 PM
Y'know Burgo..one of the functions of being 20-ish to to make an a$$ of yourself.  I still cringe when I think of what i did.
-Ed

I know.  I did more than my share of stupid things.  And when I was in my late teens and early 20s I had a girlfriend for 3 1/2 years who was very selfish and demanding, but I stayed with her for a long time for some reason.   :bluesad:



Same here.. I blew over some really sweet girls for the sake of being with her too.   cringe
-Ed