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Title: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: ER on March 05, 2018, 09:28:20 PM
Just now for no apparent reason when he gave bad karma. After I was nice to him too. I swear some people. Guess it proves he lied AGAIN by saying he doesn't read my posts. Just wow. Never let the past go.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: indianasmith on March 05, 2018, 09:37:25 PM
Who cares what she thinks?


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: ER on March 05, 2018, 09:40:24 PM
I think it's hilarious because it shows he lied about never reading my posts. But he lied about many things on here so I'm used to it. Thing is he's so paranoid he thinks a compliment is a put down, apparently. But eeeeww I got bad karma! Call my night ruined...

Funny part I actually did wanna hear him dissert upon quantum physics.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Rev. Powell on March 05, 2018, 10:04:40 PM
Well, this should calm him down and not escalate things...   :lookingup:

Why can't people who disagree or don't get along just ignore each other? 


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: indianasmith on March 05, 2018, 10:07:38 PM
Sadly, that does not seem to happen very often on this planet. . .


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: ER on March 05, 2018, 10:09:20 PM
Remember when it used to be peaceful as Switzerland in here?

Okay I sincerely pledge to show everyone here kindness, gentleness, and no middle fingers, or may lightning strike my pet cat.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: indianasmith on March 05, 2018, 10:22:27 PM
Wait a minute . . . you don't HAVE  a cat!   :buggedout: :buggedout:


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: ER on March 05, 2018, 10:26:15 PM
Grrr. Did I say cat? I meant to say may lightning strike a random Kentucky lawyer.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Svengoolie 3 on March 05, 2018, 10:51:34 PM
While you're whining about me I noticed you didn't mention your provocations.  Let me correct that oversight.

http://www.badmovies.org/forum/index.php/topic,146628.1020.html (http://www.badmovies.org/forum/index.php/topic,146628.1020.html)


And here's another example of you xxxxposting on something I said that had nothing to do with you.


http://www.badmovies.org/forum/index.php/topic,149382.135.html (http://www.badmovies.org/forum/index.php/topic,149382.135.html)

So tell us again how I'm "harassing you".


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: ER on March 05, 2018, 11:01:06 PM
As the Duke of Wellington said, when you for is destroying himself, give him plenty of room.  :cheers:


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Allhallowsday on March 05, 2018, 11:07:51 PM
Remember when it used to be peaceful as Switzerland in here?

Okay I sincerely pledge to show everyone here kindness, gentleness, and no middle fingers, or may lightning strike my pet cat.
I think Sven is possibly a troll, but you know exactly what you're doing, yet without contrition.  You confuse mean with tough.  

As the Duke of Wellington said, when you for is destroying himself, give him plenty of room.  :cheers:
"....when you for is..."   :question:  You remind me of somebody.   


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: ER on March 05, 2018, 11:11:33 PM
If you can tell me what in the two links Sven put up there that is mean or provocative...

But no I mean it, BMDO should be a nice place for us all and I'm going to do my best not to unduly hurt anyone.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Rev. Powell on March 05, 2018, 11:13:00 PM
Why don't you two not talk to each other? If I thought someone was trying to provoke me, the last thing I would do is let them know they got under my skin.



Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: ER on March 05, 2018, 11:13:45 PM
In fact, thanks for the laughs tonight, Sven, and I'm still waiting with bated breath to hear about quantum physics. Night, all.
Chill.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Allhallowsday on March 05, 2018, 11:15:57 PM
If you can tell me what in the two links Sven put up there what is mean or provocative...

But no I mean it, BMDO should be a nice place for us all and I'm going to do my best not to unduly hurt anyone.
Well, I'm gonna guess you hurt someone last night. And that's just one.  You weren't actually called any "c" word, and 'twas done a clever way to swipe at stupid people on an internet forum.  You however are not stupid.  I think you should get over it.  I've been called worse than "see you next..."  Right here on this forum.  Whoever that person is should not have done it, but maybe you shouldn't have done what you did. 


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: ER on March 05, 2018, 11:25:34 PM
If you can tell me what in the two links Sven put up there what is mean or provocative...

But no I mean it, BMDO should be a nice place for us all and I'm going to do my best not to unduly hurt anyone.
Well, I'm gonna guess you hurt someone last night. And that's just one.  You weren't actually called any "c" word, and 'twas done a clever way to swipe at stupid people on an internet forum.  You however are not stupid.  I think you should get over it.  I've been called worse than "see you next..."  Right here on this forum.  Whoever that person is should not have done it, but maybe you shouldn't have done what you did.  
(Yesterday was yesterday but if you really want to go there again...you mean the abortion post? I felt that had a softer tone than the post I'd replied to, which was an attack on me, but isn't that what abortion causes? Dead children? My goal was less about hurting anyone than it was shoving back. But it was yesterday. As were the first instances  of Sven calling  me---a little funny--the "c-word". How all just move on and truly try to all get along here? I do want that. Frankly I'm bored with all this.)


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: 316zombie on March 06, 2018, 01:24:43 AM
If you can tell me what in the two links Sven put up there that is mean or provocative...

But no I mean it, BMDO should be a nice place for us all and I'm going to do my best not to unduly hurt anyone.

really? REALLY??? you don't live in anything that resembles the real world,do you? be thankful i don't post MY judgment of you, like you did to me.and i wasn't allowed to respond on the same thread, since it's locked.
   but you are quite obviously the golden girl because you post CONSTANTLY about YOU, and very little else, other than insults. so be it. enjoy your martyrdom, little girl. and don't EVER think you can judge me, or anyone else. and don't EVER think you can make me ashamed of MY life choices. try it again,and i'll throw it right back,with your own posts as proof.
  rev,if you have a problem with me defending myself in THIS thread, then just ban me. i'm not going to tolerate being judged and shamed by ANYONE . EVER .


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Rev. Powell on March 06, 2018, 08:42:18 AM
If you can tell me what in the two links Sven put up there that is mean or provocative...

But no I mean it, BMDO should be a nice place for us all and I'm going to do my best not to unduly hurt anyone.

really? REALLY??? you don't live in anything that resembles the real world,do you? be thankful i don't post MY judgment of you, like you did to me.and i wasn't allowed to respond on the same thread, since it's locked.
   but you are quite obviously the golden girl because you post CONSTANTLY about YOU, and very little else, other than insults. so be it. enjoy your martyrdom, little girl. and don't EVER think you can judge me, or anyone else. and don't EVER think you can make me ashamed of MY life choices. try it again,and i'll throw it right back,with your own posts as proof.
  rev,if you have a problem with me defending myself in THIS thread, then just ban me. i'm not going to tolerate being judged and shamed by ANYONE . EVER .

Of course I'm not going to ban you, 316zombie. I understand why you're upset. But I might lock the thread again. It's ER vs. Svengoolie, Indy vs. Svengoolie, Allhallows vs. ER, 316zombie vs. ER... it's like a civil war. And most of us here don't want to see you guys fighting, much less feel pressured to pick sides.

Best if everyone simply goes back to ignoring those personalities they have a problem with. There is no "block" or "ignore" feature here and no one has the capacity to install one. You all just have to exercise restraint. Or at least argue in PMs and keep it off the main boards.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: ER on March 06, 2018, 08:52:06 AM
As far as I'm concerned, Rev, the slate is clean today. Fresh start. I wish everyone here well and will try to ignore any negativity and only be positive to others here. I miss the good feelings that used to be part of this place and which fell apart starting about six weeks ago. The past is dead, long live the future.

So, how 'bout that weather/favorite sport/celebrity of recent note?


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Allhallowsday on March 06, 2018, 09:18:09 AM
As far as I'm concerned, Rev, the slate is clean today. Fresh start. I wish everyone here well and will try to ignore any negativity and only be positive to others here. I miss the good feelings that used to be part of this place and which fell apart starting about six weeks ago. The past is dead, long live the future.

So, how 'bout that weather/favorite sport/celebrity of recent note?
If I had written what you wrote yesterday, I'd be in a hurry to shove "the past" as far away as possible.  Maybe your "good feelings" fell apart six weeks ago, but I'd guess you'd caught peoples' attention here long before then. 

...
(Yesterday was yesterday but if you really want to go there again...you mean the abortion post? I felt that had a softer tone than the post I'd replied to, which was an attack on me, but isn't that what abortion causes? Dead children? My goal was less about hurting anyone than it was shoving back. But it was yesterday. As were the first instances  of Sven calling  me---a little funny--the "c-word". How all just move on and truly try to all get along here? I do want that. Frankly I'm bored with all this.)

Here's "softer tone": 

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What multiple abortions might make you is a bit careless. Also the mother of dead children, right?

You are remarkably cavalier thinking you can smooth over a remark like that.  Instead of owning it, you try to bury it.  Disagreeing is not the same as intentionally acting to hurt someone.  You owe 316zombie an apology. 


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: ER on March 06, 2018, 09:29:16 AM
Why did I say that to her, John? Did my remark fall out of thin air, or was I replying to her coming at me in the same thread? Basically if you come at someone, you have to expect someone to come back at you. Debate isn't for snowflakes and sometimes you get your nose bloodied. I don't think I owe her an apology any more than she owes me one or anyone else owes me one despite some vicious things being said. We had a disagreement and it went too far.

What I would hope is we can all go forward and if not be friends then at least not be outright enemies.

Cheer up, maybe I'll die in a plane crash today. Hope springs eternal.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Chainsawmidget on March 06, 2018, 10:45:28 AM
I'm just going to give you both bad karma for starting unessisary drama. 


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Allhallowsday on March 06, 2018, 11:15:14 AM
Why did I say that to her, John? Did my remark fall out of thin air, or was I replying to her coming at me in the same thread? Basically if you come at someone, you have to expect someone to come back at you. Debate isn't for snowflakes and sometimes you get your nose bloodied. I don't think I owe her an apology any more than she owes me one or anyone else owes me one despite some vicious things being said. We had a disagreement and it went too far.

What I would hope is we can all go forward and if not be friends then at least not be outright enemies.

Cheer up, maybe I'll die in a plane crash today. Hope springs eternal.
You can talk around what you wrote all you want, she wrote nothing even in criticizing you that warranted that response.  It was simply contemptuous. 
I wouldn't hope for your death in a plane crash.  That's cavalier again.  You can't help yourself. 


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Rev. Powell on March 06, 2018, 12:05:47 PM
I'm just going to give you both bad karma for starting unessisary drama. 

This is what those who make personal arguments public don't seem to get. Many (I imagine most) of the rest of us don't care to be exposed to this unpleasantness and have no interest in taking sides. PMs exist for a reason.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Trevor on March 07, 2018, 02:32:11 AM
Many (I imagine most) of the rest of us don't care to be exposed to this unpleasantness and have no interest in taking sides.

I don't care to be exposed to it either: spats like this are one of the reasons I left Facebook. I was told after criticizing the dire national cricket team that "you are criticizing the children of Nelson Mandela" and other idiotic things which made me go  :buggedout: and then  :bluesad:

I would really like us to argue about the merits of films like Manos and Birdemic rather than political and inter-personal message board issues.

If I have to leave here because certain people are unable to get along with each other, then I might as well toss my smart phone as I will have nowhere else to go online and I will miss my online family here.

Peeps: sort it out, please: I don't like to see people I consider family arguing.  :bluesad:


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: indianasmith on March 07, 2018, 07:34:37 AM
I've always taken the position that if you let someone else run you out of a place you like, you are letting them win.
I refuse to give them that satisfaction!

Hang around, Trev, you are loved here.  This storm will pass.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: 316zombie on March 08, 2018, 01:12:56 AM
Why did I say that to her, John? Did my remark fall out of thin air, or was I replying to her coming at me in the same thread? Basically if you come at someone, you have to expect someone to come back at you. Debate isn't for snowflakes and sometimes you get your nose bloodied. I don't think I owe her an apology any more than she owes me one or anyone else owes me one despite some vicious things being said. We had a disagreement and it went too far.

What I would hope is we can all go forward and if not be friends then at least not be outright enemies.

Cheer up, maybe I'll die in a plane crash today. Hope springs eternal.

 and why did i " come at you"? because you referred to ronnie as a whiner, point one. nobody forces you to read his posts. like rev said, we can all ignore who ever we want to ignore.
 point two, you referred to those of us who responded to him before you did as 'condescending to him" .
point three,when he protested , you went into a diatribe attacking him,and attempting to make it clear how superior YOU are,and how much YOU have scrificed for others.
  and i called bulls**t, because it is. you are an arrogant,pompous blowhard who has NEVER lived in the real world of being poor.  you are a racist and a judgmental GOD freak, who uses the book of fairy tales called the bible to hurt people. you are NOT,and never will be, an empathic, supportive human being, you aren't wired for it.
  but hey, i'll just stay away from this area and post where you rarely do,if i ever come back. you aren't interested in movies, you just want an interactive blog about YOU.
  bye for now my friends. i said my piece,and i'm not sorry about it. i'll be in touch with ronnie, if he comes back,he'll tell you how i am. later.
 


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Pacman000 on March 08, 2018, 07:24:43 PM
Even if it's not true, the Bible is not a book of fairy tales. The term myth or legend might be more appropriate. Fairy tales are usually considered entirely fictional, even by their creators*. Legends are an attempt to record history; they may not be accurate, but they represent real events. Myths are similar to legends, but while legends deal with human history, Myths deal with spiritual history, what a deity or deities have revealed to mankind.

Calling the Bible a collection of fairy tales makes it very clear that you don't believe it, but it also creates a rift between yourself & a believer. That rift cuts off any attempt to talk intelligently about the subject; to gain insite into the other person's point of view.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Allhallowsday on March 08, 2018, 07:50:17 PM
Even if it's not true, the Bible is not a book of fairy tales. The term myth or legend might be more appropriate. Fairy tales are usually considered entirely fictional, even by their creators*. Legends are an attempt to record history; they may not be accurate, but they represent real events. Myths are similar to legends, but while legends deal with human history, Myths deal with spiritual history, what a deity or deities have revealed to mankind.

Calling the Bible a collection of fairy tales makes it very clear that you don't believe it, but it also creates a rift between yourself & a believer. That rift cuts off any attempt to talk intelligently about the subject; to gain insite into the other person's point of view.
I don't claim to understand what any of these participants have stated, or why,  but it is worth pointing out that ER has stated that she has no religion.  

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To be clear I have no religion. 


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: RCMerchant on March 08, 2018, 10:22:12 PM
Even if it's not true, the Bible is not a book of fairy tales. The term myth or legend might be more appropriate. Fairy tales are usually considered entirely fictional, even by their creators*. Legends are an attempt to record history; they may not be accurate, but they represent real events. Myths are similar to legends, but while legends deal with human history, Myths deal with spiritual history, what a deity or deities have revealed to mankind.

Calling the Bible a collection of fairy tales makes it very clear that you don't believe it, but it also creates a rift between yourself & a believer. That rift cuts off any attempt to talk intelligently about the subject; to gain insite into the other person's point of view.

I believe she was refrencing Ernest Thesiger in the BRIDE OF FRANKENSTEIN when he refers to the bible as  "fairy tales".

Censors caused Pretorious' derogatory line about "fairy tales" to be changed to "Bible stories," but once they saw the sneering contempt which Ernest Thesiger loaded into his delivery of these two words, they wished they had left the original script unchanged.

And if she wasn't- well- it's no more distorted truth than the "myths" that the Bible puts out as "Truth".

She's very angry- I don't blame her. Me- I cooled off- water off a ducks back. But I won't be responding to folks who hijack my threads no more. I will ignore them.

(yeah right.)  :lookingup:






Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: RCMerchant on March 09, 2018, 02:44:04 AM
And  as far as your comments to Zombie-

No. You don't say that kind of thing. I don't care what political bent you are.
No. " "Dead Babies"?
WTF were you thinking?
That's awful.


Folks can jump me and my politics all day long-I'm used to that. But What you said to Zombie goes beyond just common decency.
It was worse than rude. It was disgusting.
You owe her an apology.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Svengoolie 3 on March 09, 2018, 04:28:00 AM
Some have said zombie's reference to the Christian book as a collection of fairy stories as being offensive and insensitive.

The following joke was posted by someone here who is an adherent of that book.  Many would find it cruel,  callous and not particularly in keeping iwith what Jesus was supposed to preach. Also many would find it offensive.


"No, but I did buy a new Helen Keller action figure.
You wind it up and it runs into walls!''
  

It was posted beneath an equally cruel,  callous and offensive "joke".

 So if people wish to claim that find demeaning comments about Christian writings offensive and be taken seriously they should pay those values more respect.


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Chainsawmidget on March 09, 2018, 05:15:01 AM
"Somebody else was being a jerk so I can be a jerk too" isn't really an argument you should be making. 


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: indianasmith on March 09, 2018, 07:29:55 AM
Some have said zombie's reference to the Christian book as a collection of fairy stories as being offensive and insensitive.

The following joke was posted by someone here who is an adherent of that book.  Many would find it cruel,  callous and not particularly in keeping iwith what Jesus was supposed to preach. Also many would find it offensive.


"No, but I did buy a new Helen Keller action figure.
You wind it up and it runs into walls!''
  

It was posted beneath an equally cruel,  callous and offensive "joke".

 So if people wish to claim that find demeaning comments about Christian writings offensive and be taken seriously they should pay those values more respect.

A joke is just that, a joke.
An insult is an insult.
I think we've had enough insults around here and could use more jokes!


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: 316zombie on March 10, 2018, 02:33:04 AM
 i won't call out to anyone, because i respect you, and revealing the contents of personal messages in detail isn't cool. i'll just say thank you. you all reminded me that i'm a strong woman. nobody can force me to leave unless i let them,no matter how much they choose to try. baiting doesn't work on this girl.
 yesterday was our 35th anniversary(3-9), and curtis was reading here to see why i was angry. he wrote me a note i'll keep forever.it says" NOBODY CAN TAKE YOU DOWN, YOU ARE THE MISTRESS OF LAUGHING AT YOURSELF BEFORE THEY DO...IT'S WHY YOU ALWAYS WIN."
   35 years later,and he still remembers my words to myself.. pretty cool, eh? i have that note to myself too...:D


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: Allhallowsday on March 10, 2018, 10:31:36 AM
i won't call out to anyone, because i respect you, and revealing the contents of personal messages in detail isn't cool. i'll just say thank you. you all reminded me that i'm a strong woman. nobody can force me to leave unless i let them,no matter how much they choose to try. baiting doesn't work on this girl.
 yesterday was our 35th anniversary(3-9), and curtis was reading here to see why i was angry. he wrote me a note i'll keep forever.it says" NOBODY CAN TAKE YOU DOWN, YOU ARE THE MISTRESS OF LAUGHING AT YOURSELF BEFORE THEY DO...IT'S WHY YOU ALWAYS WIN."
   35 years later,and he still remembers my words to myself.. pretty cool, eh? i have that note to myself too...:D
Nice to see you around, 316!  Congratulations on your landmark anniversary. 


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: 316zombie on March 10, 2018, 11:35:12 PM
thank you! nowdays, i guess it IS a landmark, isn't it? people keep asking how we did it...it's hard to figure out an answer that would make sense to all, so i just say" danged if i know, but he's still here!", and he says the same.  :teddyr:


Title: Re: Sven just called me a c**t
Post by: claws on March 11, 2018, 11:57:30 PM
You all just have to exercise restraint. Or at least argue in PMs and keep it off the main boards.

Easier said than done I guess. Insults and name-calling continue on karma-stats  :buggedout: