I don't want to connect with people I haven't seen or talked to in 20 years. If they were so important I wouldn't have lost contact in the first place.
I'm just the opposite. I foolishly lost touch with some people over the years and thanks to Facebook I'm back in touch with them. In fact, some people I used to hang around with in the late 1980s and early 1990s are on there. I had only seen and/or spoken to a few of them very sporadically over the years. Now, we are all in touch again. About a year ago we all got together one night . . . about 20 of us . . . and had a real blast. Lots of laughs. Since then, I've seen most of them a few times in smaller groups. But I'm sure we'll get all 20+ of us together again before long.