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Started by Olivia Bauer, December 29, 2021, 01:19:47 PM

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Olivia Bauer

Quote from: Trevor on December 31, 2021, 03:13:28 PM
I hope your family and friends were and are supportive: I came out as bi in 2003 and my folks were 100% fine with it.  :smile:

I haven't come out to my mom yet. I don't think she'd disown me but she's said hurtful things about trans people on multiple occasions. She's probably going to try and gaslight me into doubting myself and convince me I'm not a woman. That's how I think it's going to go.

HappyGilmore

Quote from: Olivia Bauer on December 31, 2021, 05:03:26 PM
Quote from: Trevor on December 31, 2021, 03:13:28 PM
I hope your family and friends were and are supportive: I came out as bi in 2003 and my folks were 100% fine with it.  :smile:

I haven't come out to my mom yet. I don't think she'd disown me but she's said hurtful things about trans people on multiple occasions. She's probably going to try and gaslight me into doubting myself and convince me I'm not a woman. That's how I think it's going to go.
I hope not. A friend of mine where I live is in similar spot.

They've my full support though.
"The path to Heaven runs through miles of clouded Hell."

Don't get too close, it's dark inside.
It's where my demons hide, it's where my demons hide.

HappyGilmore

It's a hard thing to do, come out, whether it's as trans or just admitting your sexuality.

You've got my fullest well-wishes and I'm pretty sure everyone here feels the same.
"The path to Heaven runs through miles of clouded Hell."

Don't get too close, it's dark inside.
It's where my demons hide, it's where my demons hide.

Paquita

So glad you said something because I would have thought someone else just joined with the same last name and wondered where AJ went.   Best of luck to you!  I hope the support you get here helps you on your journey!


Olivia Bauer

Quote from: HappyGilmore on January 04, 2022, 10:29:52 AM
Quote from: Olivia Bauer on December 31, 2021, 05:03:26 PM
Quote from: Trevor on December 31, 2021, 03:13:28 PM
I hope your family and friends were and are supportive: I came out as bi in 2003 and my folks were 100% fine with it.  :smile:

I haven't come out to my mom yet. I don't think she'd disown me but she's said hurtful things about trans people on multiple occasions. She's probably going to try and gaslight me into doubting myself and convince me I'm not a woman. That's how I think it's going to go.
I hope not. A friend of mine where I live is in similar spot.

They've my full support though.

She barely acknowledged that I came out. She didn't have much to say at all. It was rather underwhelming, frankly. But better than direct rejection.

Trevor

Quote from: Olivia Bauer on January 06, 2022, 09:56:44 AM
She barely acknowledged that I came out. She didn't have much to say at all. It was rather underwhelming, frankly. But better than direct rejection.

That's good to hear. I was concerned when I came out to my folks and the consensus from them was "You're bi? So, what else you got?" So, no problem.
We shall meet in the place where there is no darkness.

HappyGilmore

Quote from: Olivia Bauer on January 06, 2022, 09:56:44 AM
Quote from: HappyGilmore on January 04, 2022, 10:29:52 AM
Quote from: Olivia Bauer on December 31, 2021, 05:03:26 PM
Quote from: Trevor on December 31, 2021, 03:13:28 PM
I hope your family and friends were and are supportive: I came out as bi in 2003 and my folks were 100% fine with it.  :smile:

I haven't come out to my mom yet. I don't think she'd disown me but she's said hurtful things about trans people on multiple occasions. She's probably going to try and gaslight me into doubting myself and convince me I'm not a woman. That's how I think it's going to go.
I hope not. A friend of mine where I live is in similar spot.

They've my full support though.

She barely acknowledged that I came out. She didn't have much to say at all. It was rather underwhelming, frankly. But better than direct rejection.
Direct rejection can hurt, and a big reason I've not divulged things about my own, um, sexuality and concerns to family.  It's completely baffling and overwhelming.
"The path to Heaven runs through miles of clouded Hell."

Don't get too close, it's dark inside.
It's where my demons hide, it's where my demons hide.

The Burgomaster

You were among friends as AJ and you're among friends now! (By the way, I'm not REALLY a Burgomaster . . . )
"Do not walk behind me, for I may not lead. Do not walk ahead of me, for I may not follow. Do not walk beside me either. Just pretty much leave me the hell alone."