"RIP my sweet Nicole Wolf. You mean the world to me. I'll love you forever."
These are the words from clockworkcanary's Facebook page; a loving farewell to someone who is...the meaning in his life.
I'll paraphrase his words as to what happened:
My girlfriend didn't wake up this morning. She passed in her sleep sometime during the night. We're not sure yet why. We'll find out during the autopsy. It's been one of the hardest days of my life. She seemed fine last night - we even had one of the best, nicest conversations ever (plans to get married, etc.).
Nicole Wolf was 26 years old; a beautiful young woman.
Nicole and David were a good looking couple, and even in a picture you could see the chemistry between them; two people who just looked like they belong together.
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"A moment to reflect; a lifetime to remember. Tragic is not only in the loss of the life before, but also in the loss of the days ahead. To hold in one's arms one so dear, shall now be held in one's heart, lovingly and forever."
My thoughts are with you Clock. I wish I had gotten to know Nicole; I think in you, she had something really special in her life.
How very, very, awful. I lost a 16 year old student a few years back and it was a similar sense of devastation; not that the relationship was that close, but in the sense of a life snuffed out before its time.
All our thoughts and prayers to our friend Clock.
OMG how awful.....
Hugs, love, warmth and strength to David. :bluesad: :bluesad:
I'm sorry I don't know how to comfort really. I've lost my father but I don't know how I could handle losing someone like a friend like that.
I know all too well the pain that he must feel. I have been there myself and my heart goes out to him. I hope that he may find comfort in his time of loss.
This is terrible. I can't even imagine what he's going through right now.
My deepest condolences to clockworkcanary.
Horrible news, my deepest condolances to Clockwork. If there's anything he needs we're here for him.
Heartbreaking. David, I hope your friends and family bring you comfort. You are in my thoughts this morning.
Thank you for posting this, Menard. And thank you all for your kind words. It has been one of the hardest few days of my life. I'm still in shock. Luckily, I have a lot of great friends both online and in life who have been checkin on me/taking care of me. It's times like this that one realizes the importance of family, friends, and life in general.
I'll love Nicole forever. She is and will always be my Queen. I miss her so much.
Thanks again everyone. It means a lot to me.
My deepest condolences clockworkcanary. It is truly awful to lose a loved one so unexpectedly and so young. I hope you and your friends and family find comfort in each other.
This is one of those times when words are so inadequate. My children are 25 and 27 and I can't imagine losing them at such a young age.
My heart and mind are with you David.
How devastating. My condolences clockworkcanary
My deepest condolences. I can't imagine what you must be going through.
How stunningly, heartbreakingly sad :bluesad: . So sorry to hear this. As others already said, words don't do justice. As Newt said already, I hope you and your family and friends do find comfort in each other...
I'd just like to give you my deepest condolences.
I am so sorry to hear that :bluesad: What a tragedy, my condolences.
This is so sad.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
So sorry.
Nicole's Obituary from the Columbus Dispatch:
WOLF Nicole K. Wolf, 26. A family and friend gathering will be held at the SCHOEDINGER WORTHINGTON CHAPEL, 6699 N. High St. on Tuesday, September 14, 2010 from 5-8 p.m. Nicole passed away at her residence on Friday, September 10, 2010. She was born on August 8, 1984 to Charles Wolf and Kerry (Brown) Pathy. A long time resident of Worthington, OH, and graduate of Thomas Worthington High School class of 2002. She received her B.A degree from Kent State University, class of 2006. She began her career at CareStar and has been with them up until her passing. Nicole loved to play the piano. She had a deep soft spot in her heart for animals, especially cats, and as a child, she hoped to be a pet shop owner one day. Nicole loved life and loved her family deeply. Although Nicole's life on earth was short, her love and goodness will last our lifetime. Survivors include her mother, Kerry (Sam) Pathy of Worthington; father, Chuck Wolf of Columbus; grandparents, Gary Brown, Ruth Wolfe; aunts, Carolyn (Rob) DePalma and Diane Wolfe; uncles, Rick (Linda) Brown, and Don Wolf; cousins, Bonnie Philpott, Matt Philpott, Katie DePalma, Roy Wolf, and Jeanin Wolf; along with many other cousins; relatives; and friends. Nicole is also survived by the love of her life, Dave Evans. Nicole is preceded in death by her grandmother Zelda Brown, and cousin Michael DePalma. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Cozy Cat Cottage, Powell, OH, www.cozycatcottage.com, and to your local Humane Society. Visit www.schoedinger.com to sign an online guest book or to share a story about Nicole.
Published in The Columbus Dispatch on September 12, 2010
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...happy that I can still make Nicole laugh hysterically on a day-to-day basis
David Evans Sept. 8, 2010
It's true! He was cracking me up so bad when I was driving, I thought I was going to crash!
Nicole Wolf Sept 8, 2010
:bluesad:
I am so sorry. I cannot adequately muster the words, so I will say that I'll keep you in my thoughts, Canary.
You have my utmost sympathy and my deepest condolences.
Quote from: Menard on September 12, 2010, 09:00:11 PM
Nicole's Obituary from the Columbus Dispatch:
WOLF Nicole K. Wolf, 26. A family and friend gathering will be held at the SCHOEDINGER WORTHINGTON CHAPEL, 6699 N. High St. on Tuesday, September 14, 2010 from 5-8 p.m. Nicole passed away at her residence on Friday, September 10, 2010. She was born on August 8, 1984 to Charles Wolf and Kerry (Brown) Pathy. A long time resident of Worthington, OH, and graduate of Thomas Worthington High School class of 2002. She received her B.A degree from Kent State University, class of 2006. She began her career at CareStar and has been with them up until her passing. Nicole loved to play the piano. She had a deep soft spot in her heart for animals, especially cats, and as a child, she hoped to be a pet shop owner one day. Nicole loved life and loved her family deeply. Although Nicole's life on earth was short, her love and goodness will last our lifetime. Survivors include her mother, Kerry (Sam) Pathy of Worthington; father, Chuck Wolf of Columbus; grandparents, Gary Brown, Ruth Wolfe; aunts, Carolyn (Rob) DePalma and Diane Wolfe; uncles, Rick (Linda) Brown, and Don Wolf; cousins, Bonnie Philpott, Matt Philpott, Katie DePalma, Roy Wolf, and Jeanin Wolf; along with many other cousins; relatives; and friends. Nicole is also survived by the love of her life, Dave Evans. Nicole is preceded in death by her grandmother Zelda Brown, and cousin Michael DePalma. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Cozy Cat Cottage, Powell, OH, www.cozycatcottage.com, and to your local Humane Society. Visit www.schoedinger.com to sign an online guest book or to share a story about Nicole.
Published in The Columbus Dispatch on September 12, 2010
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...happy that I can still make Nicole laugh hysterically on a day-to-day basis
David Evans Sept. 8, 2010
It's true! He was cracking me up so bad when I was driving, I thought I was going to crash!
Nicole Wolf Sept 8, 2010
Thanks for this, Dr M: it's good to see my old buddy back here but I wish it was under better circumstances.
Sounds like she was a truly beautiful person.
THats terrbile man, hang in there!
_Ed
I really, really, sorry to hear about this. I remember about a decade ago when I got the news that a friend of mine (a young lady who'd just graduated high school) passed away. She and I had been speaking online for several years. Even though we never meet face to face I think of her as a dear friend, and she once even told that if she wasn't dating her current boyfriend that I'd be the type of man she'd want in her life.
I know, it doesn't compare to what you're going through right now, but still, you have my sympathies. Just remember though, you are NOT alone in your grief. One of the things a death can do is make people feel that way, but there are other who care about and are willing to support you.
I never knew Nicole, but she it sounds like she was a beautiful person both inside and out.
I hate to ask, but have they found out what happened to her?
I wish you the best in your time of grief.
I'm so sorry to hear this. Try to stay strong during this difficult time.
Quote from: indianasmith on September 13, 2010, 06:26:44 AM
Sounds like she was a truly beautiful person.
Not to mention her outward beauty. She was very pretty. A true loss by any definition of the word.
Perhaps not a time to mention so, but I am coming up on the 16th anniversary of the loss of a female friend of mine who was 18 when she was killed in a traffic accident in 1994. I do a lot of thinking about her as she and I were very close.
No matter how many people you have to help you deal with it, you always have to deal with it in your own private time, away from the ones you know and love. That's the hard part.
I too, wish you the best in your time of loss, and hope that each day will see you becoming stronger and able to move on and up. God Bless you, my friend.
I just found this. I'm very sad. What a beautiful girl. Just beautiful. I can only guess how David feels. It hurts, I know. I know he's grateful he found her and knew her.
She was very beautiful.
I'm sure the world was a better place with her in it.
You both looked happy.