Okay, okay, I have to get (type) this out because I'm all pent up with excitement and uncertainty! I ended up fooling around with someone who I worked with when I was out on Friday night for my "leaving do". She's been seeing this guy for over ten years on and off, but is now considering ending that relationship properly and maybe start seeing me, I kind of hope anyway. We ended up at my former manager's house and were up all night talking and then we seemed to get overcome with passion and couldn't keep our hands off each other. It all took me totally by surprise, but it was absolutely fantastic and it felt comfortable and "right", plus we weren't even drunk. She's about ten years older than me, and we've only just got to be close friends recently but Friday night's encounter doesn't seem to have made things "weird".
It's probably now safe to say that I am finally over the girl I was obsessed with a while back and have come to accept that all that business with her was never going to become anything. This woman from work is going to get back to me about what's happening with her current relationship, but it looks like we'll still be able to hang out and everything be cool regardless. She's really smart, funny, a very good-hearted person and I love listening to her talk. I'm just a bit wired right now, as I haven't slept in over 48 hours and I just want to go and kiss this chick's face off...
Quote from: Circus Circus on October 22, 2011, 05:33:18 PM
... I just want to go and kiss this chick's face off...
Well, you can kiss any part of her, just don't kiss
her off. :thumbup: :teddyr:
Older woman with a personality? I'd hit that. Hope it works out Circus, if not I hope you get several good scores. :thumbup:
Man, that's great to hear.
Best luck to you!
Quote from: DS on October 22, 2011, 05:38:36 PM
Older woman with a personality? I'd hit that. Hope it works out Circus, if not I hope you get several good scores. :thumbup:
She looks my age though and is fun, artistic, outgoing. I just enjoy her company very much. Hopefully we should be going to a concert together in a month or two's time. I'm just really up for doing something sooner though. I'm exhausted but revitalised in a way, if ya know what I mean?
Quote from: Circus Circus on October 22, 2011, 05:46:44 PM
Quote from: DS on October 22, 2011, 05:38:36 PM
Older woman with a personality? I'd hit that. Hope it works out Circus, if not I hope you get several good scores. :thumbup:
She looks my age though and is fun, artistic, outgoing. I just enjoy her company very much. Hopefully we should be going to a concert together in a month or two's time. I'm just really up for doing something sooner though. I'm exhausted but revitalised in a way, if ya know what I mean?
Yeh, yer young and your hormones are surging. Keep it up. :thumbup: :smile:
Artistic! Artistic women are the most fun to be around-they seem to have a crazy streak-which makes it interesting.
I'm reading this thread, smiling a bit, and wondering what the 'problem' is... :teddyr:
Quote from: Zapranoth on October 23, 2011, 10:14:15 AM
I'm reading this thread, smiling a bit, and wondering what the 'problem' is... :teddyr:
Yeah, I think I may have titled it wrong! Talking to her now, about death metal and booze!! :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
Great to hear, man.
Hope it's all well there. :thumbup:
Finally life seems to have dealt you a great hand of cards: my advice is play them. :smile: :thumbup:
The 'in a ten year relationship' worries me, as that's generally not easy to break, so I hope it works out ok for ya, but if she's keen enough [which it sounds it from what you were saying] then bam!
I've been looking for an excuse to use the below clip, so please forgive me for cheapening the whole thing by posting it:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9d6f9j7gAdY&feature=related
Quote from: dean on October 24, 2011, 03:14:57 AM
The 'in a ten year relationship' worries me, as that's generally not easy to break, so I hope it works out ok for ya, but if she's keen enough [which it sounds it from what you were saying] then bam!
That's my main concern, that this guy all of sudden turns round to her and commits. She was talking things over with him last night I think, but I don't know what's been said yet. I want to be her guy, I'm climbing the walls right now because I haven't seen her since Saturday morning and I can't sleep again. I just want to kiss her and hold her. If it doesn't work out as I hope, we'll still be friends, so that's great. I shall keep you updated anyway.
Quote from: Circus Circus on October 24, 2011, 04:03:37 AM
I just want to kiss her and hold her.
Like your team not just beating Manchester United but flattening them, 'to kiss and hold her' shouldn't just be everything you want to do. :wink:
Quote from: Trevor on October 24, 2011, 04:16:10 AM
Quote from: Circus Circus on October 24, 2011, 04:03:37 AM
I just want to kiss her and hold her.
Like your team not just beating Manchester United but flattening them, 'to kiss and hold her' shouldn't just be everything you want to do. :wink:
Well no. A bit more than that has gone on, but I'm not all about the sex. I want the affection, the company...
Quote from: Circus Circus on October 24, 2011, 04:25:05 AM
but I'm not all about the sex. I want the affection, the company...
That seems right. :smile: :thumbup:
We'll know it is the definite article when he hasn't seen her for a few days and he complains, "I just want to hear her voice." That is serious attraction.
And, Trev, I just noticed and am concerned. You archive your S****y underpants? How do you catalog something like that? Odor? Depth of color? Size of stain? And, trust me, I find it scare that I've even thought things through THIS far.
Quote from: Javakoala on October 26, 2011, 02:21:09 PM
We'll know it is the definite article when he hasn't seen her for a few days and he complains, "I just want to hear her voice." That is serious attraction.
I'm essentially at that stage now. I'm seeing her Sunday. She's 100% single and mine now. We're just keeping it a bit of a secret for the time being, as in saying nothing on facebook and nothing to people at work. Don't want to rub it in with the ex or become office gossip before we've actually spent time as a proper item. Finally, real romance!
Oh, hey Java! :wink:
Quote from: Javakoala on October 26, 2011, 02:21:09 PM
And, Trev, I just noticed and am concerned. You archive your S****y underpants? How do you catalog something like that? Odor? Depth of color? Size of stain? And, trust me, I find it scare that I've even thought things through THIS far.
:bouncegiggle: :bouncegiggle:
The Film Archives has cold rooms which enable me to secretly store my foul undergarments and the cold enables me to wear a pair for about two minutes until the chill fades and the stench starts :buggedout: :buggedout:
Oh god. Now he'll be doing things like coming to a total stand-still whenever he gets a passing whiff of her from his jacket and being frightfully pleasant in general. :teddyr: Welcome to the club, Circus!!
And hey back at you. Long time, no terrorize. Maybe I can change my ways and be regular...as in showing up here on a more regular basis, not...the other "regular".
Trevor, you should start a blog. No text. Just a daily shot of your undies.
Quote from: Javakoala on October 28, 2011, 02:04:28 PMTrevor, you should start a blog. No text. Just a daily shot of your undies.
And when technology catches up: scratch and sniff? :buggedout: :twirl: :bouncegiggle:
Quote from: Newt on November 02, 2011, 08:03:52 AM
Quote from: Javakoala on October 28, 2011, 02:04:28 PMTrevor, you should start a blog. No text. Just a daily shot of your undies.
And when technology catches up: scratch and sniff? :buggedout: :twirl: :bouncegiggle:
:bouncegiggle: :teddyr:
Way ahead of you: I have to do that every day before I get dressed so that I don't overly offend people sitting near me when I take the bus. :wink:
Quote from: DS on October 22, 2011, 05:38:36 PM
Older woman with a personality? I'd hit that.
Agreed. When I was Circus' age, that was the type who caught my attention. Good luck with that, Circus.
Come to think of it, a close friend of mine married almost exactly that - a woman with a personality, about ten years older.... from northern England. :teddyr: