That job I applied for: I was passed over for it in favor of someone who is at least thirty years younger than me, non Caucasian and female. Also this person knows maybe a quarter of what I do and has not been mentored as I was.
I understand that the employment laws in my country preclude Caucasian males from employment but the law doesn't stop such people from applying and it doesn't stop the awful feeling in my gut right now: it's 3pm here and I don't see myself sleeping tonight.
Time to retire, I think although God knows what I am going to do with myself if I do.
Hang in there ,buddy. :thumbup:
Trust me, being retired is boring.
Quote from: RCMerchant on June 28, 2020, 08:05:42 AM
...Trust me, being retired is boring.
Yeh. That's what he said.
Aw Trev! So disappointing. Sounds like you were both overqualified and the wrong demographic. Stinks on both counts.
Have a pizza with some turtles and regroup. You are still Trevor T-for-trouble Moses and that is a great thing whether potential employers appreciate it or not!
Obviously the people that run that place don't know what they're doing. Do you really want to work for a place where the people in charge are clueless?
:wink:
(Alternatively, it may have just been the stink from your drawers that drove them away. Remember, next time wear clean clothes for your interview.) :tongueout:
Sorry to hear that Trev. Keep trying, put aside this temporary disappointment. You say you love your job, if so, you wouldn't want to lose that.
I know it feels like a kick in the teeth but hang in there Trev.
Thanks, guys: it hurts like all bloody hell.
I am seriously thinking about seeing the year out and then quitting in January: there must be something else I can do with my life besides having all my dreams destroyed because of stupid laws that don't accurately promote people who can do the job, other than people who are the correct gender and race.
The last time I felt this bad was when my Dad died.
Quote from: Trevor on June 28, 2020, 10:41:26 AM
Thanks, guys: it hurts like all bloody hell.
I am seriously thinking about seeing the year out and then quitting in January: there must be something else I can do with my life besides having all my dreams destroyed because of stupid laws that don't accurately promote people who can do the job, other than people who are the correct gender and race.
The last time I felt this bad was when my Dad died.
Quitting a job you love would be cutting off your nose to spite your face. It's only a setback, and you understand. Bad feelings never help, and only injure the one who feels them. Perhaps others are foolish; don't you be. You are a survivor. You are a lucky man. Hold your head up proudly.
Quote from: Allhallowsday on June 28, 2020, 11:26:44 AM
Quote from: Trevor on June 28, 2020, 10:41:26 AM
Thanks, guys: it hurts like all bloody hell.
I am seriously thinking about seeing the year out and then quitting in January: there must be something else I can do with my life besides having all my dreams destroyed because of stupid laws that don't accurately promote people who can do the job, other than people who are the correct gender and race.
The last time I felt this bad was when my Dad died.
Quitting a job you love would be cutting off your nose to spite your face. It's only a setback, and you understand. Bad feelings never help, and only injure the one who feels them. Perhaps others are foolish; don't you be. You are a survivor. You are a lucky man. Hold your head up proudly.
Thanks for the nice words and I know you mean them. I was really looking forward to going back to work this week - my mentor said it would possibly be on 1 July - but now I actually don't care when I return.
When I return, I will be resigning from my Union - I've been with them since 1990 - as they are hopeless and will join another one: maybe they can take up my case as I am not letting this BS stand.
That's why I had to get out of Volunteer radio...
Seemed like every damned year, history would repeat it'self, but it just got especially cliquish those last two or three years I was doing it.
i'm so sorry trev. i think you should definitely get a new union and fight this tooth and nail. and everyone is right, you are OUR mighty trev, don't let this ruin your love for the job you have while you fight that good fight, okay? uncle zombie WILL prevail somehow!
:bluesad:
I'm sorry Trevor
f**k 'em,
it's their loss
Got little or no sleep last night, even my landlord asked me what was wrong when she visited this morning, I asked why, she said "You look terrible" and I didn't explain further other than saying that I had a bad night.
This is tough, peeps, this is very tough for me. :bluesad:
Keep your job. You will overcome.
You don't want to end up being broke.
I would suggest that you keep your job, but maybe start looking for somewhere else at the same time? When you find somewhere else, walk away from this job.
Quote from: Alex on June 29, 2020, 09:54:48 AM
I would suggest that you keep your job, but maybe start looking for somewhere else at the same time? When you find somewhere else, walk away from this job.
Agreed.
Update your resume & start passing it out, just try not to be negative when describing your situation to perspective employers.
So sorry! I really wish you the best. Working in HR, I see this happen from time to time and I've seen it blow up in people's faces.
I am ready when you all are to start our own business!
trev, you are SO loved, and SO smart. and wise too. please go look in a mirror and BE your wise self TO yourself, okay? you know as well as i do that YOU were not the failure here, THE SYSTEM WAS. YOU ARE FREAKING AMAZING!!!! and i agree with the others, go find the people who will know that as much as i do. and in the meantime, KEEP the job you enjoy. and eat pizza with the turtles. and dance in a sprinkler with uncle zombie's shorter fans. I'M one of them, and i would dance with you, if i could. :smile: :hot: :smile:
Quote from: Alex on June 29, 2020, 09:54:48 AM
I would suggest that you keep your job, but maybe start looking for somewhere else at the same time? When you find somewhere else, walk away from this job.
With the laws as they are now, there is no chance for me to get another job locally.
Quote from: chefzombie on July 01, 2020, 12:37:07 AM
trev, you are SO loved, and SO smart. and wise too. please go look in a mirror and BE your wise self TO yourself, okay? you know as well as i do that YOU were not the failure here, THE SYSTEM WAS. YOU ARE FREAKING AMAZING!!!! and i agree with the others, go find the people who will know that as much as i do. and in the meantime, KEEP the job you enjoy. and eat pizza with the turtles. and dance in a sprinkler with uncle zombie's shorter fans. I'M one of them, and i would dance with you, if i could. :smile: :hot: :smile:
Thanks for that. :smile: :smile:
I was supposed to go back to work yesterday - that was the rumor anyway - but we've been told to hang on a bit.
Things are going to be awkward to say the least when I return so the longer I can stay away the better: maybe the hurt will have subsided a bit by the time I do return.
I can retire at 55 (three years from now) but I don't know if I should.
I would suggest just do the job you enjoy- and continue. It's not the end of the world.
QuoteI can retire at 55 (three years from now) but I don't know if I should.
For some reason, I thought you were older than that.
nah, he's just a youngun. i think ronny and i are the oldest regulars now. :cheers:
Quote from: chefzombie on July 02, 2020, 06:50:04 PM
nah, he's just a youngun. i think ronny and i are the oldest regulars now. :cheers:
Maybe I have some work to do to re-qualify as a regular, but I am older. 🙂
Quote from: chefzombie on July 02, 2020, 06:50:04 PMnah, he's just a youngun. i think ronny and i are the oldest regulars now. :cheers:
I am older than
BELA (Ron). :lookingup:
Ok- we're all old farts! :bouncegiggle: :drink:
:bouncegiggle: :bouncegiggle: :bouncegiggle:
:bouncegiggle: :cheers:
Is there a way you could do what you do as a side bar, y'know, contract out for a few extra bucks?
I accumulated a few microphones & a couple recorders during my film & radio days after a few incidents....
Along the way, somebody told me about kitsplit
My accounts been up a few years, but I finally had a couple rentals this year.
I was expecting this: the person in the post I wanted desperately, emailed me in a panic two hours ago asking for my help in a project and like the schmuck I am, I agreed.
you're not a schmuck, you're a genuinely kind person, and i wish i could be more like you. i'd have laughed maniacally and blocked them.
Quote from: Trevor on July 14, 2020, 01:29:22 PM
I was expecting this: the person in the post I wanted desperately, emailed me in a panic two hours ago asking for my help in a project and like the schmuck I am, I agreed.
Wow. You are so nice. Don't ever put yourself down for that.
(Does that person even know you were a candidate for the job? I cannot imagine what it would take for them to ask for your help, if they did! :buggedout: )
I spoke to my mentor this morning regarding the post I applied for and it seems the consensus of the panel was that I am a fit candidate for being a resident film historian but not a preservationist. Several other reasons were given but I still believe I was passed over for the post due to apartheid style racist laws which favour race and gender over ability.
I admit that my mentor looked a little shocked when I said I will be taking early retirement in three years.
Quote from: Trevor on August 12, 2020, 06:48:53 AM
I spoke to my mentor this morning regarding the post I applied for and it seems the consensus of the panel was that I am a fit candidate for being a resident film historian but not a preservationist. Several other reasons were given but I still believe I was passed over for the post due to apartheid style racist laws which favour race and gender over ability.
I admit that my mentor looked a little shocked when I said I will be taking early retirement in three years.
Racist laws? I don't understand... :question:
Your not black or a woman...?
You mean racist against white males...?
Quote from: RCMerchant on August 12, 2020, 06:59:34 AM
Quote from: Trevor on August 12, 2020, 06:48:53 AM
I spoke to my mentor this morning regarding the post I applied for and it seems the consensus of the panel was that I am a fit candidate for being a resident film historian but not a preservationist. Several other reasons were given but I still believe I was passed over for the post due to apartheid style racist laws which favour race and gender over ability.
I admit that my mentor looked a little shocked when I said I will be taking early retirement in three years.
Racist laws? I don't understand... :question:
Your not black or a woman...?
You mean racist against white males...?
In SA, if you are white and male, the employment laws are against you as the laws state that preference of employment will be given to female black African candidates, no matter if they have no qualifications for the job. This is why so many female govt. ministers have been found incapable of doing their work correctly without blaming the pre 1994 laws.
I knew this going in for the job but I still gave it my best shot: guess it wasn't good enough.
So it's reverse racism? They are over compensating?
Are you sure? That's why they did what they did?
Trevor- your my buddy. But I think your reading too much into it.
All jobs want new blood. I worked at a factory for 30 years- I was a foreman too. But they go for young blood.
Quote from: RCMerchant on August 12, 2020, 08:44:32 AM
Are you sure? That's why they did what they did?
Trevor- your my buddy. But I think your reading too much into it.
All jobs want new blood. I worked at a factory for 30 years- I was a foreman too. But they go for young blood.
Not reading too much into it at all: in 1996, all the Caucasian staff members at my work got called in as a group and we were told to our faces that we were, as so called pale males, "undesirable elements" now that apartheid had gone and were told that we either needed to get with the program or leave. I was raised in a non racial household and this made me very angry. I told the senior staffer to go f*** herself as she didn't know me. She ended up leaving "because of work related stress" and I was the only one who stayed.
I apoligize Trevor, if I said anything offensive. I don't live in South Africa, nor do I know your situation beyond what you say here.
I'm sorry if I offended you.
Quote from: RCMerchant on August 12, 2020, 09:33:29 AM
I apoligize Trevor, if I said anything offensive. I don't live in South Africa, nor do I know your situation beyond what you say here.
I'm sorry if I offended you.
You offend me? Never. :thumbup: :smile:
Quote from: Trevor on August 12, 2020, 06:48:53 AM
I admit that my mentor looked a little shocked when I said I will be taking early retirement in three years.
While we all know you are one heckuva historian, did they really expect you to (figuratively) "close your eyes and think of England" as they screwed you?
:hatred: Apologies Trevor: I am presuming to be incensed on your behalf.
Quote from: RCMerchant on August 12, 2020, 08:39:00 AM
So it's reverse racism? They are over compensating?
Pretty much. Tit for tat.
I have had it explained to me in recent times that it is not racism unless it is expressed by members of the group in power. And here it is. :bluesad:
i'm just as angry, newt, trevor truly deserves that job! :hatred:
Quote from: Trevor on August 12, 2020, 08:49:35 AM
Quote from: RCMerchant on August 12, 2020, 08:44:32 AM
Are you sure? That's why they did what they did?
Trevor- your my buddy. But I think your reading too much into it.
All jobs want new blood. I worked at a factory for 30 years- I was a foreman too. But they go for young blood.
Not reading too much into it at all: in 1996, all the Caucasian staff members at my work got called in as a group and we were told to our faces that we were, as so called pale males, "undesirable elements" now that apartheid had gone and were told that we either needed to get with the program or leave. I was raised in a non racial household and this made me very angry. I told the senior staffer to go f*** herself as she didn't know me. She ended up leaving "because of work related stress" and I was the only one who stayed.
Some Americans find it hard to accept that the very thing that they want to happen in the United States of America, land of the "free", is considered as racist in other countries. But then again, most uncultured Americans that have never set foot outside of the country except for maybe a trip to Canada to score some stronger beer are even aware of the laws of other countries in the first place.
Quote from: Newt on August 12, 2020, 11:20:11 AM
Quote from: Trevor on August 12, 2020, 06:48:53 AM
I admit that my mentor looked a little shocked when I said I will be taking early retirement in three years.
While we all know you are one heckuva historian, did they really expect you to (figuratively) "lie back and think of England" as they screwed you?
:hatred: Apologies Trevor: I am presuming to be incensed on your behalf.
:thumbup:
They also said I did not answer the questions in the manner that would lead them to think I was a good candidate for the job? One of the questions they asked was "Name the stages of film production" which I challenged, saying that has nothing to to with film archiving but the stages are pre-production, production, post production and release (and we all know that)
No, this was all total BS and my interview was just a box check, nothing more.
Quote from: Newt on August 12, 2020, 11:24:33 AM
Quote from: RCMerchant on August 12, 2020, 08:39:00 AM
So it's reverse racism? They are over compensating?
Pretty much. Tit for tat.
I have had it explained to me in recent times that it is not racism unless it is expressed by members of the group in power. And here it is. :bluesad:
It is so, unfortunately.
My mentor did tell me that the Chief Director - part of the panel - was very impressed with my knowledge: being impressed by someone's knowledge doesn't put money in my wallet or food on my table.
Quote from: zelmo73 on August 12, 2020, 01:15:31 PM
Quote from: Trevor on August 12, 2020, 08:49:35 AM
Quote from: RCMerchant on August 12, 2020, 08:44:32 AM
Are you sure? That's why they did what they did?
Trevor- your my buddy. But I think your reading too much into it.
All jobs want new blood. I worked at a factory for 30 years- I was a foreman too. But they go for young blood.
Not reading too much into it at all: in 1996, all the Caucasian staff members at my work got called in as a group and we were told to our faces that we were, as so called pale males, "undesirable elements" now that apartheid had gone and were told that we either needed to get with the program or leave. I was raised in a non racial household and this made me very angry. I told the senior staffer to go f*** herself as she didn't know me. She ended up leaving "because of work related stress" and I was the only one who stayed.
Some Americans find it hard to accept that the very thing that they want to happen in the United States of America, land of the "free", is considered as racist in other countries. But then again, most uncultured Americans that have never set foot outside of the country except for maybe a trip to Canada to score some stronger beer are even aware of the laws of other countries in the first place.
Your so wise Alaska boy! :lookingup:
Quote from: RCMerchant on August 12, 2020, 03:33:13 PM
Quote from: zelmo73 on August 12, 2020, 01:15:31 PM
Quote from: Trevor on August 12, 2020, 08:49:35 AM
Quote from: RCMerchant on August 12, 2020, 08:44:32 AM
Are you sure? That's why they did what they did?
Trevor- your my buddy. But I think your reading too much into it.
All jobs want new blood. I worked at a factory for 30 years- I was a foreman too. But they go for young blood.
Not reading too much into it at all: in 1996, all the Caucasian staff members at my work got called in as a group and we were told to our faces that we were, as so called pale males, "undesirable elements" now that apartheid had gone and were told that we either needed to get with the program or leave. I was raised in a non racial household and this made me very angry. I told the senior staffer to go f*** herself as she didn't know me. She ended up leaving "because of work related stress" and I was the only one who stayed.
Some Americans find it hard to accept that the very thing that they want to happen in the United States of America, land of the "free", is considered as racist in other countries. But then again, most uncultured Americans that have never set foot outside of the country except for maybe a trip to Canada to score some stronger beer are even aware of the laws of other countries in the first place.
Your so wise Alaska boy! :lookingup:
I have actually traveled to other countries around the world, and not just Canada either.