I been with Tiana 8 wonderful years.
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Patty and I met in 2nd grade, way back in 1971.
We were grade school sweethearts, high school sweethearts, and have been married since 1984.
Quote from: indianasmith on August 26, 2020, 06:51:32 PM
Patty and I met in 2nd grade, way back in 1971.
We were grade school sweethearts, high school sweethearts, and have been married since 1984.
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Holey moley! I was 9 then.
Congratulations on eight years, RC.
That's a sweet love story, Indy!
I met my husband nineteen years ago next week, when I was just climbing back into the world after the worst year of my life, and his patient adoration over time was more seductive than my reluctance to get involved with another person was enduring. I'm glad we've been in each other's lives, I'm grateful for countless things about him and for what he's always brought out in me. We're beautifully well-matched (in many ways as opposites), we're still together, and I believe we always will be, come what may.
I wish happiness for everyone with the person you chose.
I never married, unfortunately.
My greatest regret is that I don't have kids of my own but I do have quite a few young peeps in my life who I consider to be my children (I treat them the way I would if they were mine), especially the two who call me Uncle Zombie.
Quote from: Trevor on August 27, 2020, 01:26:08 PM
I never married, unfortunately.
My greatest regret is that I don't have kids of my own but I do have quite a few young peeps in my life who I consider to be my children (I treat them the way I would if they were mine), especially the two who call me Uncle Zombie.
You'd have been a fine father, Trevor, as you're a fine honorary dad and uncle now. You've been a positive influence on young people's lives and that's a noble use of a lifetime. Keep it up. :thumbup:
Quote from: ER on August 27, 2020, 04:18:57 PM
Quote from: Trevor on August 27, 2020, 01:26:08 PM
I never married, unfortunately.
My greatest regret is that I don't have kids of my own but I do have quite a few young peeps in my life who I consider to be my children (I treat them the way I would if they were mine), especially the two who call me Uncle Zombie.
You'd have been a fine father, Trevor, as you're a fine honorary dad and uncle now. You've been a positive influence on young people's lives and that's a noble use of a lifetime. Keep it up. :thumbup:
Hugs.
You all probably know that I was an abused child and teen: yet people with kids who know me well and know my history, will quite happily let me look after their kids as they know I won't allow any harm to come to them. This excuse of "I do it because it was done to me" is BS.
Do you ever think about trying to find someone again, Trevor? That could change your life in many ways and I do think you have much that you could offer to another. I know it takes a lot bravery but finding love is definitely worth it.
Quote from: ER on August 28, 2020, 10:32:14 AM
Do you ever think about trying to find someone again, Trevor? That could change your life in many ways and I do think you have much that you could offer to another. I know it takes a lot bravery but finding love is definitely worth it.
The thing with me is love has always been a one way thing: from me to others but nothing is returned. That sucks and that's why I've been celibate for 16 years. What I'm saying is the people I want to be with in every way possible don't want me that way and see me as a brother.
Quote from: Trevor on August 28, 2020, 12:32:58 PM
Quote from: ER on August 28, 2020, 10:32:14 AM
Do you ever think about trying to find someone again, Trevor? That could change your life in many ways and I do think you have much that you could offer to another. I know it takes a lot bravery but finding love is definitely worth it.
The thing with me is love has always been a one way thing: from me to others but nothing is returned. That sucks and that's why I've been celibate for 16 years. What I'm saying is the people I want to be with in every way possible don't want me that way and see me as a brother.
My view has always been, if you can't find true love, have a lot of sex instead. As runner-up prizes go, it's one of the best.
Quote from: Trevor on August 28, 2020, 12:32:58 PM
Quote from: ER on August 28, 2020, 10:32:14 AM
Do you ever think about trying to find someone again, Trevor? That could change your life in many ways and I do think you have much that you could offer to another. I know it takes a lot bravery but finding love is definitely worth it.
What I'm saying is the people I want to be with in every way possible don't want me that way and see me as a brother.
Being seen as a brother could be problematic..... wait, have you tried hitting on Game of Thrones fans?
Quote from: RCMerchant on August 26, 2020, 05:18:21 PM
I been with Tiana 8 wonderful years.
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You're a lucky man, Brother.