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Title: My brother in law just died.
Post by: chainsaw midget on May 18, 2021, 12:35:26 PM
My mom just called me to let me know and I'm still a bit in shock. 
Apparently yesterday he had a heart attack in his home. 

He had been overweight for a long time, but had recently really started putting forth effort to change his diet and exercise more.  He'd lost about thirty pounds since the beginning of the year. 

We weren't especially close, but he was a good guy, friendly and hardworking with a good sense of humor and it just feels weird knowing he's not there anymore.  He's only about ten years older than me, too.   


My sister hasn't made plans yet so right now everything is still up in the air. 

Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: pacman000 on May 18, 2021, 01:08:58 PM
I'm sorry. Don't really know what to say. I'll pray for your sister & your family.
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: chainsaw midget on May 18, 2021, 01:17:05 PM
Quote from: pacman000 on May 18, 2021, 01:08:58 PM
I'm sorry. Don't really know what to say. I'll pray for your sister & your family.
Thank you. 

I really don't know what I'm supposed to do next either.  I don't even know if there's going to be a funereal or what they're doing yet.  I tried to call my sister but she was so shaken up she couldn't really talk. 
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: Rev. Powell on May 18, 2021, 02:55:05 PM
Sorry to hear that. My condolences.  :bluesad:
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: bob on May 18, 2021, 04:34:44 PM
My deepest condolences.   :bluesad:
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: indianasmith on May 18, 2021, 04:39:21 PM
My condolences on your loss.
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: Leah on May 18, 2021, 06:11:16 PM
Sorry to hear that. :bluesad:
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: Trevor on May 18, 2021, 11:06:49 PM
Quote from: chainsaw midget on May 18, 2021, 12:35:26 PM
My mom just called me to let me know and I'm still a bit in shock. 
Apparently yesterday he had a heart attack in his home. 

He had been overweight for a long time, but had recently really started putting forth effort to change his diet and exercise more.  He'd lost about thirty pounds since the beginning of the year. 

We weren't especially close, but he was a good guy, friendly and hardworking with a good sense of humor and it just feels weird knowing he's not there anymore.  He's only about ten years older than me, too.   


My sister hasn't made plans yet so right now everything is still up in the air. 



Sending warm hugs to you
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: Allhallowsday on May 19, 2021, 12:29:04 AM
Let us know how you are doing.  Best to you all. 
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: claws on May 19, 2021, 01:58:08 AM
My condolences
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Post by: RCMerchant on May 19, 2021, 07:18:44 AM
My best to you and your family.  :bluesad:
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: chainsaw midget on May 19, 2021, 09:47:06 PM
Thanks everybody. 

I think most of the shock has worn off, but I still haven't heard what we're doing yet and that feels like a weight that's just hanging above me. 
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: Allhallowsday on May 19, 2021, 10:33:32 PM
Quote from: chainsaw midget on May 19, 2021, 09:47:06 PM
Thanks everybody. 

I think most of the shock has worn off, but I still haven't heard what we're doing yet and that feels like a weight that's just hanging above me. 

Do you need to call your sister? 
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: chainsaw midget on May 22, 2021, 10:36:51 PM
Quote from: Allhallowsday on May 19, 2021, 10:33:32 PM
Quote from: chainsaw midget on May 19, 2021, 09:47:06 PM
Thanks everybody. 

I think most of the shock has worn off, but I still haven't heard what we're doing yet and that feels like a weight that's just hanging above me. 

Do you need to call your sister? 
I tried. 

She really wasn't in the mood for taking at the time. 
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: Allhallowsday on May 22, 2021, 11:51:23 PM
Quote from: chainsaw midget on May 22, 2021, 10:36:51 PM
Quote from: Allhallowsday on May 19, 2021, 10:33:32 PM
Quote from: chainsaw midget on May 19, 2021, 09:47:06 PM
Thanks everybody. 

I think most of the shock has worn off, but I still haven't heard what we're doing yet and that feels like a weight that's just hanging above me. 

Do you need to call your sister? 
I tried. 

She really wasn't in the mood for taking at the time. 

Then it is obviously not your concern.  Arrangements will be made and perhaps you'll be informed. 
Title: Re: My brother in law just died.
Post by: Allhallowsday on May 23, 2021, 11:40:37 AM
Quote from: Allhallowsday on May 22, 2021, 11:51:23 PM
Quote from: chainsaw midget on May 22, 2021, 10:36:51 PM
Quote from: Allhallowsday on May 19, 2021, 10:33:32 PM
Quote from: chainsaw midget on May 19, 2021, 09:47:06 PM
Thanks everybody.  
I think most of the shock has worn off, but I still haven't heard what we're doing yet and that feels like a weight that's just hanging above me.  
Do you need to call your sister?  
I tried.  
She really wasn't in the mood for taking at the time.  
Then it is obviously not your concern.  Arrangements will be made and perhaps you'll be informed.  

Harsh?  What I wrote is not "harsh" but honest and in your corner.  I had asked in response to your own posts twice if you called your sister.  What else can you do other than stay out of it and wait for news?  I am sorry if I'm too blunt.