this is a movie in the late 80's or early 90's about a air force jet crashing and the pilot blamed. His wife doesn't believe the air force and invertigates herself to find the cause of the crash which she does.
I believe that one is called "Afterburn" starring Laura Dern.
Here's the IMDB listing for it:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0103626/
I have seen this and it actually is a pretty good movie.
There's a similar movie for which I cannot think of the title. I thought it had Adam Baldwin in it, but an imdb search of his filmography did not reveal a clue. Maybe it was just someone who reminded me of Baldwin.
This one is pretty cheesy and iirc was not a made for tv movie. If I think of it, I'll post it.