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My friend's brother killed himself.

Started by Cthulhu, March 27, 2012, 01:27:46 PM

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Trevor

#15
March 28, 2012, 04:44:23 AM
Quote from: Cthulhu on March 27, 2012, 01:27:46 PM
I feel horrible for her. I'm trying to support her, but it breaks my heart to see her so devastated.
s**t, I'm in tears right now.
I just wish I could do more for her. To make it go away.

Warm hugs and good wishes to both of you in this terrible time.  :bluesad:
We shall meet in the place where there is no darkness.

Newt

#16
March 28, 2012, 10:29:43 AM
As so many have said, there is nothing more to do but to be a friend and be there for her.  Having someone there to share the pain is an immense gift and not to be underestimated.
"May I offer you a Peek Frean?" - Walter Bishop
"Thank you for appreciating my descent into deviant behavior, Mr. Reese." - Harold Finch

The Burgomaster

#17
March 28, 2012, 10:41:33 AM
Spending time with your friend should help her through this very difficult time.  One of my best friends committed suicide when I was about 24 years old.  I visited his parents several days every week for months.  His father and I would sit at the kitchen table and talk for hours.  It seemed to help his dad a lot.  It certainly helped me. 
"Do not walk behind me, for I may not lead. Do not walk ahead of me, for I may not follow. Do not walk beside me either. Just pretty much leave me the hell alone."

Cthulhu

#18
March 28, 2012, 02:59:30 PM
Thank you all so much...I really don't know what to say...

Trevor

#19
March 29, 2012, 01:33:42 AM
Quote from: Cthulhu on March 28, 2012, 02:59:30 PM
Thank you all so much...I really don't know what to say...

It's times like this when you realize just how many good friends - family, actually - you have on this site: we are all here for you.  :smile:
We shall meet in the place where there is no darkness.
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