Off Topic . . . but I have a question (nekkid people questions)

[Rob Phillips]

My guess is that some of our participants visit . . . ahem ADULT WEB SITES. So you can comment on an area I do not participate in and fail to understand

While I find nekkid people just as attractive as anyone else, please excuse my naiveté, but I would like someone to explain a few things to me. When I was in the service I saw all the things young service men see both here and overseas and can understand the attraction there, I may disagree morally, but can understand it.

What is the thrill in email or chat room sex? Why would someone wish to pay to have someone play with themselves via a web cam? Maybe I’m dumb, but I kind of like the real thing. Or the thing I really fail to understand, I get pop ups about “water sports”, my assistant at work informs me this is people peeing on each other, or even defecating on one another. Uhh, maybe I am really dumb, but what’s hot or sexy about this?

Am I just dumb, or am I missing something here?

I did say ot was off topic!

Rob (the sheltered?) Phillips

[raj]

I don't think you're dumb; there are lots of various, um, things I enjoy but water sports aren't among them (not that there's anything wrong with it, to quote Seinfeld).

I also don't see the attraction with email/phone sex (unless I was involved with the girl).  I prefer my women to be alive (undead doesn't count*), of age, and not married.

*usually, unless she's a real purty vampire

[Chadzilla]

Rob Phillips wrote:

>  
> Am I just dumb, or am I missing something here?
>

According to those that engage in fetish enhanced sexual behavior, yes you are missing somethig.  Sex without enhancements is commonly referred to as 'vanilla sex', simply because, to those who have a fetish, it is so bland and boring without it.  While it is true that some of the 'crossed wiring' that makes the sexual sparks fly can prove dangerous (i.e. pedophilia and/or bestiality) more often than not it is perfectly harmless and done all in good clean fun.

As far as what is sexy about it?  They ask the same question of you, how can you engage in mundane same old same pumping and grinding without falling asleep at the wheel?

[JohnL]

>What is the thrill in email or chat room sex?

Never done this myself, but I would assume that it's something enjoyable that they could enjoy with someone who doesn't physically have to be there. I'm referring to people just talking to each other, not paying for a service. I see it as being similar to talking dirty to someone you're involved with on the phone. You can be there at the moment, but at least you can share a little something.

>Why would someone wish to pay to have someone play with themselves via a
>web cam?

Never done this either, but I imagine it's the thrill of having someone that you can just tell what to do and not have to worry that they won't be into it. Maybe your girlfriend doesn't want to dress up as a cheerleader and masturbate with kitchen utensils while calling you "Daddy". With a pay service, no problem.

>Maybe I’m dumb, but I kind of like the real thing.

Not dumb. I'm sure most people do, but that doesn't mean that they can't like other things as well, like watching porn.

>Or the thing I really fail to understand, I get pop ups about “water sports”, my
>assistant at work informs me this is people peeing on each other, or even

Yup.

>defecating on one another. Uhh, maybe I am really dumb, but what’s hot or sexy

Actually, that usually comes under the heading of "scat".

>about this?

From my time on the net and various adult newsgroups, I've come to the conclusion that no matter what activity you can think up, there's someone, somwhere who gets off on it. Somewhere I'm sure there are people who get turned on watching nude women covered in chocolate syrup yodelling while guys dressed in pink tutus throw popcorn at them. :)

[Brother Ragnarok]

First off, I don't get the chat bit either.  I like my porn, but reading it doesn't do it for me.
I enjoy some position swapping now and again, but I've never been much for fetishes.  They do make me laugh, though.  Poop sex is one of the funniest things I have ever heard of, and I really want to know who thought of it and decided crapping in each other's mouths would be fun.  I mean, how to you broach THAT subject to the girlfriend?  "Honey, this might sound weird, but can I drop a load on your chest and rub it around before we have sex?"

Brother R

[Evan3]

Knowing nothing about this subject, I will make an inane observtion. Rob, you seem to be quoting Nirvana's song Dumb a lot in your post. I think you asked if you were dumb 4 times. hehehe,

[Rob Phillips]

ddddddddddddddddddddDUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUdddddddddddddddhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhHH!   HUHUHUH

That was actually my veiled attempt to kepp from try to appear self rightous and conceited, never heard the song. I guess you caught me!

LOL


RobEvan3 wrote:

> Knowing nothing about this subject, I will make an inane
> observtion. Rob, you seem to be quoting Nirvana's song Dumb a
> lot in your post. I think you asked if you were dumb 4 times.
> hehehe,
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