Thanks everybody.
I think most of the shock has worn off, but I still haven't heard what we're doing yet and that feels like a weight that's just hanging above me.
Do you need to call your sister?
I tried.
She really wasn't in the mood for taking at the time.
Then it is obviously not your concern. Arrangements will be made and perhaps you'll be informed.
Harsh? What I wrote is not "harsh" but honest and in your corner. I had asked in response to your own posts twice if you called your sister. What else can you do other than stay out of it and wait for news? I am sorry if I'm too blunt.