This is a very hard post for me to make

[Trevor]

❤️🌹❤️Thank you, Paccie 🙏

[Trevor]

My X tribute to her:  she was a major part of my life for 36 years.

 

https://x.com/ZombieTNinja/status/1978041360356700290

  

[Trevor]

Her memorial service was held yesterday.

I didn't attend although I was asked if I would like to attend but I informed the family that since I had heard the news of her passing, I had been very depressed, had considered suicide and cried a lot of the time.

She was someone I had known for 36 years, more than half my adult life.

They told me that she had actually been very close to end-of-life care and that she was and had been thus very, very ill.

I was thankful that she had passed peacefully and that there was no more pain for my big sister: there shouldn't have been any pain at all for such a special person.

They sent their love to me.

[pacman000]

  Keep going; she'd want you to, & you can be her to someone else.

[Trevor]

Keep going; she'd want you to, & you can be her to someone else.

Thanks ❤️❤️🙏🙏🐢

[chainsaw midget]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Brenda sounds like a truly special person — her influence and kindness clearly live on through you.

Thank you Claws ❤️🌹🌹

She was a very special person indeed. Tough, uncompromising, kind, beautiful, very funny, special and someone who would have your back especially if she felt you were being threatened.

I have spent the last two days remembering and reminiscing with people about her. Everyone who knew her - and it's a lot of people - is hurting.

She was my friend, my mentor, my champion and my big sister.

❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹💔💔💔🥀

Then it sounds like she left the world a better place than it was when she found it. 
In the end, that's the best we can ask of anyone.