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Who Has Been The Most Influential Person In Your Life?

Started by ER, January 25, 2021, 02:33:24 PM

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ER

Is there one person who for good or ill stands out above all others as having the most influence in making you who you are?

I think I'd have to say that person in my life would be my father, in the best sense.
What does not kill me makes me stranger.

claws

No one. I've been marching to my own drummer since forever.

lester1/2jr

probably my older sister. She is very successful in life and my main portal into normalcy and normal happiness

indianasmith

My Dad, first and foremost.

Then my wife, whom I have known since we were both seven years old.

And my best friend, who knows me to the depths of my soul and still finds me worthwhile.
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RCMerchant

#4
An old man -Nickoli Siskaninitz.

I went to school with his son Nick- he was my best friend. If I took the old trail threw the woods- I could walk to his house. We lived in the boonies.
I went to the Strand with Nick and his sister Daphne, and my cousin Terry.
I worked at that farm since I was 14. I shoveled corn, cut wood, skinned pigs, dig potatoes, pick pickles, and asparagus.
It was alright- because everybody worked hard. And drank hard after.  :drink:
And Nick Sr and Ed Buddus, (he was russian too) and Motkya- which is Russian for "Mother"- who made homemade wine and goat cheese- on a wood stove. She was like 80 something years old. Me and Nick Jr. used to plow and plant corn on her back 40. Never charged her a dime. She was a nice lady who used to talk about WWII. She was tough. She owned a goat. So she could make cheese. To eat with her homemade wine.
I loved all these people.
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Rev. Powell

Boring answer, but my father: even though I'm not too much like him. I've grown more like him as I've aged. It's mostly the way he handles difficult times and tasks that I admire and try to emulate.

Also an uncle of mine (my Dad's brother), whose personality is much more like mine. I didn't spend nearly as much time with him, though, and he died when I was in my 20s.
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Allhallowsday

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HappyGilmore

"The path to Heaven runs through miles of clouded Hell."

Don't get too close, it's dark inside.
It's where my demons hide, it's where my demons hide.

ER

What does not kill me makes me stranger.

Rev. Powell

I'll take you places the hand of man has not yet set foot...

Trevor

My parents who took an unwanted child into their lives and raised him.  :smile:
We shall meet in the place where there is no darkness.

HappyGilmore

Quote from: Rev. Powell on February 01, 2021, 10:06:37 PM
Quote from: HappyGilmore on February 01, 2021, 06:26:42 PM
Nobody honestly.

Kinda sad, really.

Surely someone has been a bad influence on you?
Not necessarily.  I'm a generally horrible person and what with my various mental illnesses have made some fairly terrible decisions of my own volition.   :bluesad:
"The path to Heaven runs through miles of clouded Hell."

Don't get too close, it's dark inside.
It's where my demons hide, it's where my demons hide.

Rev. Powell

Quote from: HappyGilmore on February 08, 2021, 07:22:42 PM
Quote from: Rev. Powell on February 01, 2021, 10:06:37 PM
Quote from: HappyGilmore on February 01, 2021, 06:26:42 PM
Nobody honestly.

Kinda sad, really.

Surely someone has been a bad influence on you?
Not necessarily.  I'm a generally horrible person and what with my various mental illnesses have made some fairly terrible decisions of my own volition.   :bluesad:

You may have made bad decisions but I do not believe you're a horrible person.
I'll take you places the hand of man has not yet set foot...

Trevor

Quote from: Rev. Powell on February 08, 2021, 07:36:59 PM
Quote from: HappyGilmore on February 08, 2021, 07:22:42 PM
Quote from: Rev. Powell on February 01, 2021, 10:06:37 PM
Quote from: HappyGilmore on February 01, 2021, 06:26:42 PM
Nobody honestly.

Kinda sad, really.

Surely someone has been a bad influence on you?
Not necessarily.  I'm a generally horrible person and what with my various mental illnesses have made some fairly terrible decisions of my own volition.   :bluesad:

You may have made bad decisions but I do not believe you're a horrible person.

Agreed 100%: anyone who agrees with my Mom about the merits of CKY, Viva La Bam and Jackass is OK in my book.  :teddyr:
We shall meet in the place where there is no darkness.

HappyGilmore

It's appreciated fellas.

I mean, I've not murdered or sexually violated people, so in that sense, yes.  I'm not terrible on that front.

There's a bunch I've done that's truly been terrible and it's legitimately hurt people and I'll never forgive myself there.  :bluesad:
"The path to Heaven runs through miles of clouded Hell."

Don't get too close, it's dark inside.
It's where my demons hide, it's where my demons hide.