Whos married? Whos not?

[RCMerchant]

I been married twice. The first time was a BIG mistake.....a horrible experiance. I had 2 children with the evil b***h. The second time was wonderful. Tara Sue.
Im single now-Tara died. But I sometimes wish I was married again. It's nice.
OK....so-are you married?

[venomx]

I was married back 3 years ago...

I'm getting married again, someday. I love the girl I'm with.

I gave her a promise ring and I told her someday I want to marry her, now she holds me to that!

[bob]

I be single.

[Psycho Circus]

Nope. Don't think I ever will get maried either. I came within days of doing so back in 2006, but I had a huge bust up with my ex. We were still together, but the whole marriage thing went west and out the window. It was a lucky escape when I think about it now. We were too young though.

I don't know what the hell's going on at the moment, as women seem to either hate me or they want to mother me. Plus, I'm a fussy idiot as I can see a hundred supposedly "gorgeous" girls yet they'll do nothing for me. I seem to seek out particular people that I deem as being "special", then they mercilessly shoot me down.

I'm weird.

[Sister Grace]

I been married twice. The first time was a BIG mistake.....a horrible experiance. I had 2 children with the evil b***h. The second time was wonderful. Tara Sue.
Im single now-Tara died. But I sometimes wish I was married again. It's nice.
OK....so-are you married?

when you are ready for the third time, look me up! we can start a cult and i can be married to you and doggett; a perverse version of traditional mormons...

[Mr. DS]

Married and hope to be for the rest of my life.  HOWEVER...and thats a big "however"...there is absolutely no friggin' way I'd EVER do it again nor even have any bit of anything resembling a relationship if my wife and I didn't make it.  I'd just want a few friends with benefits that I could walk away from once having our way with each other.  Yep, thats cold and this will really bake your noodles...I've told my wife this.  I simply don't like the drama BS relationships can cause.  Why can't people just shut up and f*ck.

When you get married you inherit a lot of baggage emotionally and literally.   Their problems become your problems hence you end up spending a lot of time miserable.  All of this "lets work through it together" I find is mostly movie and TV bullsh!t.  If one person isn't happy with something, you inherit the BS.  Still, the moments when your relationship is BS free prove to usually make up for it.

In other words, being married is a ton of work and requires an overload of tolerance for another person. If you can't handle that, I'd recommend not doing it ever.  

[venomx]

In other words, being married is a ton of work and requires an overload of tolerance for another person. If you can't handle that, I'd recommend not doing it ever.  

Words of wisdom.

[Mr. DS]

In other words, being married is a ton of work and requires an overload of tolerance for another person. If you can't handle that, I'd recommend not doing it ever.  

Words of wisdom.

Thanks man and I know personally you've been around the bend on this topic.  

Let me say as a guy a lot of my misery has come from women.  I am not a misogynist but there are times I question if the other half in my past/current relationships were legally insane at times. personally I dislike relationship drama and for me 99% of the time it came from the other half.  My needs are simple, treat me with respect, do what you can to be nice to me and give me sex.  With women it seems I've argued a lot...mostly about nothing. instead of getting it on I have to argue with the other half over whether or not they "look good".  I just have no tolerance for that sh!t anymore and I think my wife is getting that hint.

Which brings me to this, why does it seem the nice guys get stomped on in relationships all the time while d!ckheads are spared the drama?  There are so many women I know that have total losers for mates yet they do everything for them.  Meanwhile the nice guys seem to have the b!tches.

[indianasmith]

Been married to my best friend and childhood sweetheart for almost 27 years now.
I love her insanely; she's high maintenance but worth it!
However, I'm not cut out to live alone, and I don't believe in sex outside of marriage.
So if she croaks, I'm marrying Anne Hathaway.

[Doggett]

So if she croaks, I'm marrying Anne Hathaway.

Its always good to have a back up plan ! 

[Killer Bees]

I seem to seek out particular people that I deem as being "special", then they mercilessly shoot me down.

I'm weird.

I feel your pain Circus.  I've been married twice but each time it ended badly and I was left scratching my head wondering what went wrong.  With each new relationship I'm hopeful and believe that I've learned my lessons from the previous one and I believe that I pick a different guy each time.  But to no avail.  It starts out well and then they suddenly realise they are emotionally unavailable and they run a mile.

My current beau, Sean is a case in point.  I haven't seen him for about 3 weeks, although we chat nearly every day.  He started shutting down over the last few months and one night we got drunk and I told him a few home truths about how I saw things and what I thought his problems were.  I only spoke the truth, but it must have been too much for him because it brought up a lot of issues from his past he hadn't dealt with and he freaked out.

So now he's trying to "get his head straight" and then I'm assuming we'll have The Talk and I'll find out how he feels and what he thinks.

I just don't know how things could go from being so wonderful and so right to such a stinking cesspit of angst and heartbreak in 5 months. 

But if he breaks it off with me, I'm done with men.  I will never date again because I just couldn't go through the hearbreak again.  I'm way too old for that sh.i.te

[JaseSF]

No, don't plan on getting married but I have been with the same girlfriend for over three years now.

[sideorderofninjas]

The one, the single, the unmarried...

[Couchtr26]

Single and probably will remain.  Not against the idea, but have trouble dealing with people over extended periods of time and people have problems dealing with me over extended periods of time.  I tend to make terrible choices that aggravate people at inappropriate moments.  I don't know.  I think having moved and other issues makes stability uncomfortable in a way.  I tend to like some change and have a bit of wanderlust at times. 

[dean]

Not married, though may as well be, but other than the 'cool party' we don't feel like there's a need to make the plunge, even though it was pretty much discussed three months into our relationship.