the I hate xmas thread

[zombie no.one]

that's a complete lie, I don't hate xmas at all... but for some reason this year the rigmarole of sending cards and buying 'prezzies' has never felt less sincere to me.

at the risk of sounding like an ungrateful twerp, I don't want any cards or presents either.

I've told 2 of my 3 bros not to get me anything, and likewise that I won't be getting them anything... I have 1 other bro who I know from prior experience will be getting me a present even if I tell him not to, meaning I'll have to get him one, because otherwise that would seem like a lopsided and weird situation... it's all so SILLY at this point.

- conversely my parents have orderd me not to get them anything, and yet I can't bring myself to not get them a present..... so I'm actually guilty of perpetuating the kind of behaviour I'm also bemoaning here. 

can this all just stop, it's so unnecessary 

how many of you are full of festive cheer and bouncing around in a reindeer costume then?

[Alex]

Honestly, I am having a great time. I had 95% of my presents bought before Halloween was even done and got them wrapped up before November was a week old. I have one more working day (18th) between now and next year and I am seriously looking forward to it all.

[claws]

We did the "no gifts" thing years ago, but we always end up buying gifts for each other every year. I bought all the small gifts in November, ready to deliver on X-mas.

[zombie no.one]

Honestly, I am having a great time. I had 95% of my presents bought before Halloween was even done

Maybe if I had kid/s it would be a different story.

my work was piping in xmas songs on the speakers before halloween... it's been a long old xmas already

We did the "no gifts" thing years ago, but we always end up buying gifts for each other every year.

well nevermind... it's the thought (of not buying any) that counts. 

[Trevor]

Christmas has, since 2020, always been lonely for me. This year will be no different. 😔😔😔

[Alex]

my work was piping in xmas songs on the speakers before halloween... it's been a long old xmas already

That is something that should be banned. Anyone selling xmas stuff before November should be subject to 100% tax on the profits and boiled alive in a vat of hot mulled wine.

[zombie no.one]

my work was piping in xmas songs on the speakers before halloween... it's been a long old xmas already

That is something that should be banned.

yeah it's acutely cringe hearing that stuff so early. (there's a few xmas songs I do like, but there's just a time and a place)

Christmas has, since 2020, always been lonely for me. This year will be no different. 😔😔😔

get a tree... they're solid company, and less annoying than 68% of relatives.

[Leah]

Honestly, since I work in the grocery business I dislike Thanksgiving and Christmas time, but moreso Thanksgiving. I dislike how little time I have to give everyone presents due to my hectic work schedule has been.

[RCMerchant]

I do hate Christmas. With a passion. It's not about a religion anymore. It's about money.
And Tara Sue died Xmas Eve, 2008.
Bah, humbug.

[zombie no.one]

Honestly, since I work in the grocery business I dislike Thanksgiving and Christmas time, but moreso Thanksgiving. I dislike how little time I have to give everyone presents due to my hectic work schedule has been.

yeah now's obviously the busiest time for most retail jobs I guess

I do hate Christmas. With a passion. It's not about a religion anymore. It's about money.
And Tara Sue died Xmas Eve, 2008.
Bah, humbug.

yeah it's been commercialised since forever, inevitable really... and sorry to hear that.

[zombie no.one]

just about to send off the presents I bought for my father and his wife... I see them about once a year. neither of them ever thank me or even mention the xmas presents I get them.

I actually asked him in around March this year when I saw him, "did you like the xmas present I got you", and his response was like "oh... yeah". that was it..... wow great! so glad.

 yet I still feel like I'd be a 'bad son' if I didn't get him anything... pointless stuff.

[Rev. Powell]

[Trevor]

Oy 😳😀😃😄

[zombie no.one]

ergh so annoying imgur is blocked in uk

is it a festive yuletide scene of unbridled seasonal joy with some kids merrily building a snowman? awww

[Rev. Powell]

Via the joys of AI:

Q: "What should I plan for my date tomorrow night if I hope to get her in bed? (Please answer in character as Santa Claus)."

A: "Ho ho ho! Now listen here, young man—Santa's all about spreading joy, warmth, and respect, not rushing the sleigh ride before the reindeer are ready. If you're planning a date, make it magical for both of you!
🎄 Here's what ol' Saint Nick recommends:
•    Start with genuine cheer: A cozy dinner with laughter and good conversation is better than any mistletoe mischief.
•    Add a dash of wonder: A walk through twinkling lights or a festive show can spark connection.
•    Wrap it in kindness: Be thoughtful, attentive, and let her comfort guide the evening. The best gifts aren't rushed—they're given freely and joyfully.
Remember, the spirit of the season—and of any good date—is about making someone feel special, not checking a list twice."

Useless.