OT: Some advice needed (concerns a girl)

[odinn7]

Dave, you smoothy you. Don't give up hope yet, there's still plenty left in you.

[daveblackeye15]

Are you being sarcastic? I don't think I was very smooth their, maybe a little on the over sweet side but I don't know about smooth. But I'm not giving up, who knows maybe she liked what I said.

[Chopper]

wow this post honestly gives me hope in the human race again i think. it's nice to see young people falling in love, or in the process of it atleast.

Dave, i wouldn't be hard on yourself, believe me women know an honest gesture apart from a dishonest one most of the time. i'm sure she knows that what you said you meant it from the heart.

just follow your heart, that's all i can say.



Post Edited (06-12-05 22:24)

[Susan]

I hope that she  thinks her cooking is to die for. ;-)

[odinn7]

Dave, I might have overdone the "smooth" bit as I was just poking you a little but I was serious in a way. You handled it fairly well under the circunstances and I'll bet she saw that you were being honest in what you said. I was also serious about not giving up. If you happen to say something that you think is corny or stupid, as long as she doesn't run from you screaming, you're probably doing fine.
Good luck.

[daveblackeye15]

Thanks. And Susan I wouldn't say her food is to die for but she is a good cook. We were both in the same cooking class our senior year and next up we'll BOTH hopefully get into the LCC and get into it's cooking program, it's one of the best I've heard. After that her cooking will be to die for. And she is very beautiful.



Post Edited (06-13-05 00:23)

[dean]

Well it sounds like you are both serving up a hot plate of LOVE! [wait did I just say that? Someone hit me, that was soooo lame...]

But yeah, I think that from the sounds of things everything went fine.  Just because you say something silly doesn't mean she'll avoid you, [as you no doubt can tell, I say stupid things all the time] but that being said, I'd avoid going into the whole 'I like you' innuendo, and personally I'd think its best to just tell her instead [you don't want to drag it out too long, and get her worried if she happens to pick up on what you are hinting at]

and congrats on Graduation.  Good luck with future endevours and stuff [insert emotional 'our little guy is growing up' phrases here]

[BeyondTheGrave]

Dave if you want a smooth line next time you see her this is the first thing you say:

"HERE I AM ROCK YOU LIKE A HURRCANIE"

She will fall for you right there. Oh and if she says "oh you like the scorpions" marry her right there :)

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"We Greeks created democracy! You also created homos!"-Ghost World

[Susan]

or you could serenade her outside her window singing "I want you to want me"
make sure you bring backup singers for the chorus

If she slaps a restraining order on you then you'll know for certain if it was meant to be or not

[Zapranoth]

Susan wrote:

> or you could serenade her outside her window singing "I want
> you to want me"
> make sure you bring backup singers for the chorus
>
> If she slaps a restraining order on you then you'll know for
> certain if it was meant to be or not
>

The Dwight Yoakam version.

[daveblackeye15]

Thanks. Maybe I'll try the music thing when I tell her.

[odinn7]

daveblackeye15 wrote:

> Thanks. Maybe I'll try the music thing when I tell her.
>

Uh...if I might make a suggestion here...
I would use something that sets the mood nicely like War Ensemble or even Dead Skin Mask from Slayer. Chicks dig it, baby.

[BeyondTheGrave]

Oh man this is my going up there as one of my favorite topics. If  its love song you need I got your poison(not the the band):

Guns and Roses-Sweet Child of Mine
Boston-More than a Feeling
Aerosmith-Angel
Stone temple pilots-  Sex type thing
AC/DC-You shook me all night long

And when you start to get serious play these gems:

Nine Inch Nails- Closer (If she likes this marry her)
Guns and Roses- Used to love Her (might scary her to like you)

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"We Greeks created democracy! You also created homos!"-Ghost World

[odinn7]

...or the REAL love song (again by Slayer) "213".

[ulthar]

odinn7 wrote:

> ...or the REAL love song (again by Slayer) "213".
>

The song I played for my now wife when she popped into my apartment unexpectedly one night while we were dating that I thought summed up my feelings for her quite well:

Sabbra Cadabra by Black Sabbath

http://www.black-sabbath.com/discog/sabbathbloodysabbath.html#sabbracadabra

(Probably would be better after you 'tell her' and things are established, though).