The Tears Of A Clown

[Rev. Powell]

Move on.  Every time you catch yourself thinking about her, give yourself a mental slap.  She will eventually fade from your thoughts.

From personal experience---unrequited love is a waste of your time and energy.  I'd lay odds that six months from now you will not think this girl is as desirable as you do now.

[Flick James]

Move on.  Every time you catch yourself thinking about her, give yourself a mental slap.  She will eventually fade from your thoughts.

From personal experience---unrequited love is a waste of your time and energy.  I'd lay odds that six months from now you will not think this girl is as desirable as you do now.

That was essentially my advice as well.

To Rev. Powell you listen. YES!

[Paquita]

Girls have this super-power called Meddling, some use it for evil, and some use it for good.  It looks like your ex is one of the bad ones.

I agree with forgetting about her.  There's this girl that used to work at the Corner Bakery that I swear would have been perfect for you!  but I think she quit.  Anyway!  My point is that there are tons of girls that are perfect for you, they just don't take your bus.

If you see her on the bus again Don't show weakness!  Puff your chest out when you walk and if she gets too close, shove her!

[JaseSF]

Some women seem to like to play with guys, string us along but truthfully the only woman worth bothering about is one that'll let you be you (if you're the you you want to be...)...I think moving on is likely for the best as this all sounds like pyscho style drama best avoided to me...

[Zapranoth]

Just know you a bit from posts, Circus, but I side with the "deserve better" crowd.

I know that doesn't help with your feelings.  You know we can't say anything that would help you much with your feelings... even people really close to you IRL can scarcely do that. 

Sounds like you need a change of scene.

[Psycho Circus]

Thanks for the feedback/thoughts dudes and dudettes. I AM taking it all on board and having a damn good think about everything. I have a bit more perspective now. We'll just see how it goes, if I see her, if  I don't - time will hopefully heal me.   

[Killer Bees]

Time wounds all heels and heals all wounds

[Newt]

Some women seem to like to play with guys, string us along...

There is more than one way to be a vampire.

[dean]

Like most of the others, I don't know you too well either, but I'm with the 'forget about her-you deserve better' side of things.

Her behaviour alone and her 'closeness' with your ex alone is something that should at least take the sheen off: she doesn't sound deserving of such high praise, and such attention from you [this isn't to say she's a horrible person either mind you]

I know I can't speak of your situation, but one of my closest friends is a bit manic too and he had a moment recently where he had a fleeting moment with a girl and when it was over was completely crushed and sounded alot like you; he couldn't get her out of his head and seemed to be obsessed.

Needless to say whilst the girl was not out and out horrible to him, it still wasn't going to go anywhere in the end.  Once he got over it [it took a while] he realised how stupid he was for being so crushed, especially since it was really just a fleeting moment in time and not some great huge romance...

So I'll leave your actions to you, since like others I only know a bit based on what we've heard so far, but I'd be inclined to tell you to try and not obsess over it all, and try and keep her out of your head for the most part.

[diamondwaspvenom]

It's incredibly sad that some people are this low as human beings. What really bothers me is when people like that girl do these things and feel absolutely no shame about it. What the hell is this world coming to?

[HappyGilmore]

I don't know you very well, but the few times I've talked to you here, seem like a good guy and you deserve better than that.  Don't really know what else to say, but I hope however it works out, it's for the best.   

[Psycho Circus]

Move on.  Every time you catch yourself thinking about her, give yourself a mental slap.  She will eventually fade from your thoughts.

Well, it's been nearly two years since I first clapped eyes on the she-demon of my desires. Mental slap? I'm pretty much smashing my skull into kitchen counter at the moment. YES I AM DRINKING (smoking too), whilst on my tablets. I don't give a flying monkey turd! My grammar as you can see is not effected (take note world!). I stupidly sent SADIE a friend request on facebook, that was a month ago. Still not been accepted, yet she's been on that superficial crap-fest of a site. I usually use my brain to conquer my emotions and vice-versa, but I am f**king screwed right now. I've got power ballads blasting out of the stereo, candles burning away and my insides feel their being rotted with acid.

[Cthulhu]

Circus, you have to pull yourself together. Forget her. Meet other people.
IF she wants to be with you, then let her come to you. If not, to hell with her.

[Psycho Circus]

Circus, you have to pull yourself together. Forget her. Meet other people.

I have. They suck.

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[The Burgomaster]

Come and drink with me.  It's all on me.  We'll puke together and pass out in the gutter and stuff. It will be worth it.  Hang tough, my friend.